"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sammo's next step: first thing's first

Sammo

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So you have read my introduction to the series? Then you would know this is all about improving your personallity. There are 2 things stopping us from improving our personallity, fear and laziness. I have covered laziness in my last series, and its a battle you have to fight on your own but fear i havent completely covered.

This post will be getting fear out of the way, i have all ready done some thinking and posted about it, this post will be extension of my other one entitled "unlock your power", if you haven't read that then stop reading now and go and read it.

This post will be motivation (battling your laziness) to keep confronting the fears that hold you back. It may seem pointless, but after you have read this post and my other post linked above you should have no exscuse to give yourself exactly WHY are you arent that fearless person you want to be.

So here are the quotes, and now you must unlock your power ;)

You gain strength, courage, and confidence in every experience in which you stop and look fear in the face. You must do the thing you cannot do. - Eleanor Roosevelt

Each precious moment of your life in which you are frozen with fear is a moment when you are not being all you can be. In the end, that hurts more than anything. Succeeding or failing does not determine if we are surviving or living. Rather it is in our ability to reach beyond our present self-imposed definition of who we are, and to risk becoming more, that we are able to feel fully alive. - Rhonda Britten

I think the fear of being seen as childish or crazy severely limits our enjoyment of the world around us, thus inducing a state of boredom that in turn gives rise to much of the stupidity and meanness that oftem seem to epitomize the human condtion. In fact, these ills merely signify that the dues we pay for adult respectability are far too high, and bring some ‘benefits’ of questionable value. - D Patrick Miller

"Courage is the greatest of all the virtues. Because if you haven't courage, you may not have an opportunity to use any of the others. " - Samuel Johnson

This is the main point ive been trying to get at, if you remain scared and timid of the things you really want to overcome, then your never going to become free. You have to fight fear, if you make no other improvements, improve your courage and your life will be alot fuller.

"The greater the challenge, the greater the honor." - Cicero

"Let us move on, and step out boldly, though it be into the night, and we can scarcely see the way." - Charles B Newcomb

"It may take courage to step out and commit yourself, but in the end, boldness will pay off. Fortune favors the brave." - Stuart Wilde

Take the unlock your power post and these quotes to heart and you will be a new man, a man who is ready to improve mentally.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sisko

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Absolutely great post!
Keep this up.
 

Smooth as Anything

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You should write a self-help book, you seem to have a knack for it.
 

Julian

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^^word.

Sammo;s posts always seem to get me motivated.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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