Same-self around a lady as would a fellow?

[calfre3]

I tend to think women can smell agenda and try-hard like a shark in water. Would being yourself as you would a fellow guy be the helpful strategy initially when becoming acquainted around a new lady?

 

[El Payaso]

Treat her like you would everyone else.

 

[b305d]

You shouldn't be one of those guys that act different around women. They do come off as having an agenda.

I treat hot chicks, ugly chicks, homeless people, rich people all the same. It's a matter of habit and personality, not a conscious decision.

 

[Igetit!]

I tend to think women can smell agenda and try-hard like a shark in water. Would being yourself as you would a fellow guy be the helpful strategy initially when becoming acquainted around a new lady?

I agree that some chicks can sniff out agendas (maybe),but my question is.....


If you're interested in dating the chick,or at least going out once or twice,WHY would you have that as a "hidden" agenda?


What'd be your purpose for keeping your interested "hidden".....what,you trying to somehow trick her into going out on a date with you?


If you wanna take her out,then ASK HER OUT. What are you trying to hide and sneak around for? You know how you said chicks can smell try-hard and agendas? Well the same thing about them that detects agenda CAN ALSO sniff out FEAR.


So if you're repeatedly hanging around a chick you like,but NOT asking her out,she's going to assume you're either SCARED or not interested....both of which are checkpoints on your way to the FRIENDZONE.




If you want to ask some chick out,then just do it.....stop tapdancing and procsatinating....it's not like it's gonna increase the chances of her saying yes.