"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm in sort of the same situation with a girl. I went to a party last night and she was with her boyfriend. We talked for a while but then he came aroung. I can tell (for the most part) that she is attracted to me and that we could start something. My boy told her that i was feeling her and she started smiling and said to my friend"he likes me with a smile on but then she told him that she had a b/f" After this her b/f comes back and talks to her and my boy comes and tell me the news that she is feeling me but she has a b/f. This is where i need the advice.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Same problem as what?

And who cares about this sole chick? You? You poor thing. Unless you are experienced in this kind of situation, nothing said in this here thread will allow you to get her. So, Good Game.
 

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well since u want to be a smart ass i really don't i just want to f**k her, but the way u talk u make it seem like the kid don't have any game and thats not true. I just wanted a little advice on how i would be able to get her off him and onto me
 

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It doesn't matter how much game you have my friend, unless you have been through a similar process.

Smart ass?

I'm in sort of the same situation with a girl
That is very coherent with the rest of your post.

You want to **** her? Whip it out and tell her to hop on. Dude seriously. Stop wasting your time on one chick. I don't even want to bother with threads such as these anymore. You're so closeminded that an attack on a obvious point which anyone could point out will make you jump the gun. Is your ego so fragile? If so, I appologize for the massive damage done, pm me so I can send you my insurance number :rolleyes: .

You want straightforward advice relevant to your situation and how to get puzzy? Because you obviously arn't going to take any on yourself so here goes:
Keep flirting with her and getting her interrested in you by basically having a ****load of fun with her and then get to somewhere alone and apply pressure. Like that, backed in a corner, she can make out with you and become very depressed because YOU forced her to do something she did not. She obviously has a certain level of commitment to her boyfriend so ****ing deal with it. There are many more chicks out there that want to be ****ed by you so get to it.

Lik
 

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btw be very careful about going for girls with boyfriends, now im neutral on this point, but a lot of posters have very strong opinions on it, so your not gonna get everyone's help. Plus this question has been asked a lot before, use the search facility.

Thidly one often rasied point, if shes weak enough to fall for you and cheat on her current bf, shes weak enough to fall for the next guy with more game and cheat on you. What goes around comes around.


But alls fair in love in and war
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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