same problem different girl

[sportf190]

hey guys i still can't seem to meet the girls who just wanna mes around... it seems every girl i get always wants a relationship and they bang like 5-6 guys... its ridicolous im sick of wastin my time on these sluts that want a relationship what am i doin wrong

 

[WC2]

Alright so let's recap.

1. You want a girl who will mess around with you, but doesn't want a relationship.
2. You want a girl who isn't a slut ACHEM
3. You want a girl who doesn't bang other guys.

Notice anything? All 3 of these contradict eachother. I think you're a little confused. It's simple. At heart, all girls have a little slut resting inside them. It's just that some girls have a harder time holding back than others. I don't care what anyone says, every girl wants to be with the top man. She might convince herself into being settled with whatever she has now, but when that Mr. Right comes along and sweeps her off her feet, then you my friend mean all but nothing.

It would be ignorant to blame the girls. Girls will be girls, and trying to change hundreds of years of evolution is pointless. That is the main focus for reading here on sosuave. You want to mold yourself into a DJ. A man a woman will stick to because he IS the ALPHA male and theres no better man she could be with. If these girls running off with other guys, then recap exactly why you aren't coming off as the man of her dreams, and fix it. Trial and error my friend.

 

[sportf190]

i dont wanna be the man of her dreams tho i just wanna do whatever then move to the next like the majority of guys this time... but it seems i always end up running into trouble with these girls b/c they always want relationships but i dont its summer!

 

[Fash]

Look...

There are 2 factors have a direct effect on your situation:

1) The girls you meet (purely luck)
2) Your behaviour around them

Now, number 1, you cant really do much about apart from trying to pick up chicks f-closing them on the night. 1 night stands and so on...

You can however do alot about fact 2. If a "fvck buddy" is all you want, then you need to make it very clear to the girl at first. But no so blatently. e.g.

You have a nice vibe about you, i like hanging out with you and enjoy your company, but i'm not really looking for a relationship at the moment.

Sure... if she really wants a relationship, she will think "yeh yeh, whatever. i'm gonna change you". They all think that, and women really really are stupid... BUT when it comes to you letting her go because she is getting too clingy, you have a get out clause! You TOLD her from the start that you didnt want a relationship.

Will all the above in mind, you will only find 1 in 5 chicks that want to just fvck for the sake of it. Most want a relationship.

Social programming my friend.... deal with it!

 

[Desdinova]

Notice anything? All 3 of these contradict eachother.

Agreed. If all you're wanting is sex, why bother being fussy? Also, you're gonna have to deal with her vocalizing what she wants. You can't just expect all women to only want sex. If you want a FB without commitment, you're gonna have to do some searching. The reality is even FBs may eventually want commitment.

If you don't want a LTR, you need to draw that line right at the beginning of your FB "relationship" and throughout the entire time you're with her. You need to tell her "I'm not ready for a relationship just yet". This actually makes you more attractive because you become a challenge.