"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Same old story.. dammit lol..

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1. met her in the club 22 year old
2. texted called chatted for 2 days
3. hung out with her first time kiss closed
4. text chatted for 3 more days
5. hung out again F closed
6. i was "gone for a week" lol
7. came back she is on period yesterday we plan for tonight
8. i text to confirm where i am to pick her up she says her house and asks what time i am coming, i say 9
9. then she says "ok but im about to go out with "my cousin" im not sure how long i will be but i will "let you know" lolol everything in quotes sounds like BS to me
10. at 845 i text asking what time she wants me to come getting (knowing in my mind that she will no longer respond - and she did not..lol)

My assessment , there have been no issues at all everything went super smooth up till now.. so:

A: She is a ho with many dudes taking her out and f closing so basically since i had my turn already she is not longer as interested and gave my slot to some other dude and simply flaked on me...

B: or this could be a flake test to see if i act all crazy on her..lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The 'I'll let you know' line is a dead giveaway that you're going to get flaked on. I don't even give them a chance to flake anymore. I usually just say I'm going to do something else instead, and we can go out another day since they're 'unsure' of when they're going to be available.
 

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WhitePimp said:
The 'I'll let you know' line is a dead giveaway that you're going to get flaked on. I don't even give them a chance to flake anymore. I usually just say I'm going to do something else instead, and we can go out another day since they're 'unsure' of when they're going to be available.
We doin a lot of running around rite now so idk wats goin on and my cuzzin is pregnat and i have to drive around with her so idk yet...

^thats what she texted me when i pressed her for a time.. lol classic lie expansion withe the third person creating suposed complexity and obsticales that are out of one control and the complete ebesnse of any definate conclusion ..... lol oh well

dont worry though people i am about to go inside a night club now and get more hos so i am not sitting around waiting for her
 

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st_99 said:
22 yo, its the least you can expect.
lol thats is true..

so in the end she flaked but never had the integrity to say she would not be hanging out with me .... so i said ok lets just hangout another day and she said yes that would be better.

maybe i like her too much ? or maybe not? i just wanted to get her on my fbuddy team tho

so now i will wait for her to initiate cause now that i think back the forst time we were to hangout she did this sexact same thing and i just ignored it..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok so i hung out with this ho again and found out that as usual her ex boyfriends wants her back...lol I dont care cause i only want to F her... but ;last night she tried to get me to make her my girlfriend and i did not bite! i will keep her guessing and hoping
 
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