"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Same Birthday as ME!

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I am talking to a girl right now that has the same birthday as me and was born the same year.

This is very cool, but how much emphasis should I place on it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How much? None.

It's a cute novelty though.

You must be a young guy. ^^
 

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Haha it would be interesting if we had a connection to everyone who we shared a birthday with... but sorry, there is none at all.

No hurting in pretending with her though. :cool:
 

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I'd recommend you immediately propose marriage to this woman. She is obviously your soul mate....:p

J/k bro. Just game her like any other girl. But it IS pretty cool to have the same birthday. There's one thing you guys *definitely* have in common. Wonder if you guys were conceived on the same day too??? Must've been a Barry White tv special on that day or something haha.
 

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I know this sounds like a dumb question.

But try this,

Say you met a girl you thought was very attractive and had a great personality.......... and then you found out she had the same birthday as you....

Tell me you wouldn't be thinking soul connection?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jayer - the answer is NO! Not to be harsh but I'm speaking from experience... I used to talk to this chick with the same bday as me (a year younger) and let me tell you.... this was chick was good for one thing (and was kinda small on that - if you know what I mean....pretty girl - yes she was... but she was another one of those money-hungry chicks just like the rest of 'em.... it lasted about a month and a half.... and she kept callin a good 4 months after that. Trust me when I tell ya bro, the b-day means nothing!
 

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I don't think any of that crap matters. Don't get caught up in any of that. Just because it didn't work for him doesn't mean it won't work for you. And, just because you share a birthday doesn't mean you two are destined or supposed to be together.... It is all bull..
Talk to her, and if you like her, date her... But not because of her Birthday.
 

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none. Are you going to bump this until you get the response that you want?

Soul connection?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Save some money on the gifts! :p
 

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LOL!

Good 1!

Seriously....NO emphasis! You don't want to get one-itis and get all clingy, k?
 

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well think of the odds, its crap when you really do.


there are 364 days a week so in probability wise, all you have to do is meet 356 women and one will probably have the same bday as you. Now i know there are factors such as parents planning to have kids in the spring so higher precentage are born in the spring but none the less there is still a probability that is not that high at all. so if you'v hit on 364 women then your gonna get that connection with one of them



simple










and ps this does not include leap years
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know this one girl that has birthday 2 months after mine, and then this other girl, she has birthday 1 month before me.

Man, I swear to God, it's soul connection right there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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