salsa dancing pickup routine

[pyros]

I usually go once a week to dance salsa with a few friends. In those kind of clubs there usually are a few girls I like. I've picked up some of these girls in previous times but I do not have a defined way to do it. Sometimes I talked to some of these girls for less than a minute after dancing, and then I went for their number. With others I talked for 20 minutes before asking for their number, etc.

I'd like to be more precise and define a scheme so everytime I go I do the same routine so I dont have to 'think' lol. For example, I was thinking something like:

1- I dance with the chick I like.
2- When we finish, I introduce myself and ask for her name.
3- I ask her for how long she's been dancing, where she has learned, I share the same information.
4- I tell her that I like how she moves and that I want her number so we can go to dance or whatever some other time.
5- Optional: if she seems interested in talking more, we talk some more.


Each time I go salsa dancing I have fun etc, but I'd like to pickup more girls more often. But I usually end up just 'having fun' and doing nothing with the chicks. So when I go back home I feel 'bad' lol.



Thoughts?

 

[cloudatlus]

That's the exact same thing I do, and I end up with their numbers at the end of the class.

 

[badboyjmm]

You feel bad because you go about it all wrong.

It's all about sexual vibes while you're dancing.

I wear a loosely tied tie when I go out at night, and a chick ALWAYS ends up grabbing it and swinging it back and forth while we dance.

Be fun and unforgettable so SHE asks YOU for your digits - or at the very least, the two of you hook up at the end of the night.

My thoughts exactly, when you are a decent dancer, the sexual vibes makes it so much easier. Focus on dancing, get closer and look at her. If she look like a deer staring at headlights then she smile, she's all yours, proceed with the makeout/number/hookup :rockon: