“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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said i remind her of her dad...

CaliGuyInLondon

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haha anyone had any experience in this before? There's this girl that ive been hittin on a bit, here and there, ive been having a hard time reading if she likes me or not, or if she's just being flirty, because she's super outgoing/friendly, last night we were flirting a lot and then later on, i was keeping a really strong frame and teasing her a lot, and we were in a group of a few people, and i said something and then she said not super loud but i heard it, you remind me of my dad...i love it. i just thought it was kind of strange, lol.

anyone have any idea if thats good or have heard that before?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CaliGuyInLondon said:
haha anyone had any experience in this before? There's this girl that ive been hittin on a bit, here and there, ive been having a hard time reading if she likes me or not, or if she's just being flirty, because she's super outgoing/friendly, last night we were flirting a lot and then later on, i was keeping a really strong frame and teasing her a lot, and we were in a group of a few people, and i said something and then she said not super loud but i heard it, you remind me of my dad...i love it. i just thought it was kind of strange, lol.

anyone have any idea if thats good or have heard that before?
That's the greatest compliment she can pay you man. If she grew up with a strong father figure and she loves him dearly, that should tell you something.

Now if girl says she hates her dad, or has issues with her dad and says that...run for it.
 

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haha okay yeah i figured that was a compliment, i mean her dad won a ****ing world series and she loves him, s o i figured i did something right, but wanted to get you guys' opinon on it. Thanks!
 

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Yea man its a good thing. Its something most girls look for in a guy...if they can replicate what their "perfect" is like.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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