So last night me and gf get back from a night out, both of us still slightly buzzed. We're cuddling in bed and I just felt like I had to say "I love you". She said it back and then initiated sex. In the morning she initiated sex again.
It could have been the alcohol that made me say it, in fact it probably was. We've been going out for about 5 months, everything has been awesome, and I really mean everything. The thing is, although I care about her and I think she does too, I don't love her yet. I just had this sudden urge to say it.
I know that the general consensus here is "don't say it first". Truth be told, I don't mind putting myself out there and saying it first seeing as this girl is a bit shy (I'm her first real boyfriend), but it pisses me off that I said it when the truth is more like "I really like you".
Any thoughts? According to threads on here saying "I love you" first leads to the woman taking you for granted and the level of attraction going down. Is this always true? I mean, she's initiated as much sex as we could handle since I said it so it doesn't seem like it turned her off...
It could have been the alcohol that made me say it, in fact it probably was. We've been going out for about 5 months, everything has been awesome, and I really mean everything. The thing is, although I care about her and I think she does too, I don't love her yet. I just had this sudden urge to say it.
I know that the general consensus here is "don't say it first". Truth be told, I don't mind putting myself out there and saying it first seeing as this girl is a bit shy (I'm her first real boyfriend), but it pisses me off that I said it when the truth is more like "I really like you".
Any thoughts? According to threads on here saying "I love you" first leads to the woman taking you for granted and the level of attraction going down. Is this always true? I mean, she's initiated as much sex as we could handle since I said it so it doesn't seem like it turned her off...