"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Safer SEX... darnit

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I was thinking about cheating on my girlfriend, but decided against it because I'm fearful of stds and I also luv her and all that sheit.

Anyway...

Wouldn't it be cool if condoms were made with a dental dam-type barrier that would prevent the spread of herpes. I'm suggesting a barrier that would cover and protect our fleshy pubic area from the nasty nonvisual shedding of the herpes virus.

That's it...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol.. erm...

Ice Cold said:
How about a full moonsuit?
:crackup:
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SELF-MASTERY:
I was thinking about cheating on my girlfriend, but decided against it because I'm fearful of stds and I also luv her and all that sheit.
Firstly, stop throwing the world "love" around. You need to 1st learn the meaning of love before using it so freely. If you loved a girl, you would not consider cheating on her no matter WHAT. I feel sorry for your relationship. :)


Laterz...
 

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~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
:crackup:
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SELF-MASTERY:


Firstly, stop throwing the world "love" around. You need to 1st learn the meaning of love before using it so freely. If you loved a girl, you would not consider cheating on her no matter WHAT. I feel sorry for your relationship. :)


Laterz...
So true...

Seriously, if you think about cheating you shouldn't be togther...
 

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Lompa said:
So true...

Seriously, if you think about cheating you shouldn't be togther...
So your telling me if you walked down the street and seen a supper fly woman, like really really hot, you wouldn't be like; "damn, i wish i could hit that" even though you have a gf?:confused:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spider_007 said:
So your telling me if you walked down the street and seen a supper fly woman, like really really hot, you wouldn't be like; "damn, i wish i could hit that" even though you have a gf?:confused:
Exactly:up:

Just because you LUV someone doesn't mean that you don't have sexual urges towards other women. GET REAL:crazy: I can't be the only guy in a relationship that has been compromised by a slutty hottie?
 

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ahem..

There is that litle something called "self control"... I guess some of us just have more of it than others... *cough* :whistle:


Laterz...
 

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~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
There is that litle something called "self control"... I guess some of us just have more of it than others... *cough* :whistle:

Laterz...
Self control is there to stop you from acting out things that might be self distractive. Looking at a beautifull woman is no-where near. It's like a beautifull piace of art (that you wana stick your john in to:eek: )
 

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I can't be the only guy in a relationship that has been compromised by a slutty hottie?
Trust me, you're not.

Being in a LTR has taught me another side-effect of being a DJ - the ability to seduce almost any woman you want. What it all boils down to is that woman you're in a LTR better be a damn good one if she wants to keep a DJ around, because he knows that he has the ability to seduce other women.

I know it's fvcking difficult sometimes. What usually stops me is remembering all the lousy women I've dated or encountered, and how the one I'm with defines what a woman *SHOULD* be.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"I was thinking about cheating on my girlfriend, but decided against it" is in no way, shape or form the same as "checking out a HB across the street". If you really loved your girlfriend, you wouldn't have considered cheating on her only to decide against it out of fear of stds.
 

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penkitten said:
why don't we all live in bubbles?
That’s a great set up line for a million one-liners….

Your bubble or mine?
This bubble’s not big enough for the both of us…we need to do THIS to save space…
You up for soapy seconds?
Better watch it…I might pop your bubble.
Are those bubbles real?
 

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hmm...

spider_007 said:
Self control is there to stop you from acting out things that might be self distractive. Looking at a beautifull woman is no-where near. It's like a beautifull piace of art (that you wana stick your john in to
spider_007: Scrumtulescence said what I was about to say:
Scrumtulescence said:
"I was thinking about cheating on my girlfriend, but decided against it" is in no way, shape or form the same as "checking out a HB across the street". If you really loved your girlfriend, you wouldn't have considered cheating on her only to decide against it out of fear of stds.
There is a difference between just thinking to yourself "hmm damn I would like to $hag that!" and "hmm... I wonder if I $hag that if I will get as STD? Or maybe I shouldn’t cause I have a gf & "all that ****e" <-- (quoted from original poster) .. There is a difference in the way of saying things between a guy that would never consider cheating on his gf to the way that SELF-MASTERY.

Key phrase: "I was thinking about cheating on my girlfriend"

Anything that was said after that is pretty much irrelevant. I think I have made my point.
Laterz...
 

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Didn't you say this site was a waste of time?

If you are worried about STDs, then you could always seduce a virgin or two. Is there some reason to believe that you are more likely to encounter an STD than anyone else, otherwise, using your theory no one would ever have sex with anyone.

Cheating is a mind game. The ability to compartmentalise relationships, mastery of emotion. Mastery of falsehood. I don't think you have the mental abilities required for the task.
 
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