"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sad girls

PeterCrouch

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When a girl is sad, and you know shes sad (upset) but you dont know what (well you kinda do, but she doesnt know that you know) and you tried cheering them up but its not working, but you like her, what should ya do? say?

i cant go see her we live too far away, but we chat on msn, the fone, texting!

we where chatting on msn and she was sad, not smiling so i tried making her smile but wasnt working and she went!

should i text her and try cheer her up, foning is out of question as im kinda busy right now, but i dont like it when ppl i know are upset, so i wanna cheer her up!

anything i could say that would help? i kinda like her atm not much but its growing!

ta for any help!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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This is the girl you've been banging on about in your last few threads,right?


Could you BE anymore desperate?


I could offer you some constructive positive help but from your recent threads I know it'll only be ignored:rolleyes:
 

PeterCrouch

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no another girl!

the one ive been speaking about in my last few threads has a bf! and im trying to move on from her

this one is single and alot cooooler!
 
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