"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The weather was 32 Celsius and it was humid. AC was on and I was just sitting watching porn to get it hard and I don't know what but maybe I touched it at a sensitive time and my no fap broke down :( happened right in my shorts. Tsk tsk tsk:mad:

Frikking April 22- July 15 - 84 days without doing it.

Now starting over again from July 17 - - always feared that starting once again from 0 would be hard and feel laborious, so let's see.

New Day tomorrow, new beginnings :cheer:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How many dates did you go on in those 84 days? How many times did you get laid?
 

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Got laid 4 times, and 3 hand jobs. Same girl though.
 

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Lol so your d!ck is so sensitive now that you just spontaneously bust like that? No fap is looking sillier everyday. Dude fap all you want just limit porn and ejaculation to about once a week or so. You'll still get all the superpowers you get from no fap.
 

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mv.89 said:
The weather was 32 Celsius and it was humid. AC was on and I was just sitting watching porn to get it hard and I don't know what but maybe I touched it at a sensitive time and my no fap broke down :( happened right in my shorts. Tsk tsk tsk:mad:

Frikking April 22- July 15 - 84 days without doing it.

Now starting over again from July 17 - - always feared that starting once again from 0 would be hard and feel laborious, so let's see.

New Day tomorrow, new beginnings :cheer:
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Thanks for this.
Made my day.
"I dont know what happened! I was watching porn and I touched it and it went off!!!:eek: ":crackup: :crackup:

Seriously though - I agree with JoeMarron. Aparrantly after 10 days NOFap the test levels dip back down beause they're not being used.

Once a week will keep you sweet. ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Purefilth said:
:crackup:
Thanks for this.
Made my day.
"I dont know what happened! I was watching porn and I touched it and it went off!!!:eek: ":crackup: :crackup:

Seriously though - I agree with JoeMarron. Aparrantly after 10 days NOFap the test levels dip back down beause they're not being used.

Once a week will keep you sweet. ;)
Okay about that , I think day 34 or 37 I had my yearly medical checkup with doctor and I told him that I wasn't fapping and he said
"why not ?
I was like cuz I don't want to. I was like is there something wrong with not doing it ?
He's like do you see anything wrong ?
I was like nah ,
He was like okay then you have your answer

So technically he didn't know himself anything by experience lol and then on my check up he wrote down check testosterone levels and everything came out normal , so that's a myth about dropping levels of it.

Also, I exaggerated a bit. lol I was like touching it to get it wet and use to stop everytime I'd think something would happen and close the browser window and all that , my stamina increased but this particular time , maybe weather, the heat , the beer , who knows what even when I stopped it just blasted through.
 

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LMFAO. hahahha this is great!!

I'm on day 18. I got laid four times in one day a couple days ago, so you've definitely had it tougher than me :D. Anyway man, 84 days is a long a$$ time!! I've apparently become a douche since I started no fap :crackup: Oh well, fvck em! Maybe I should update my jounal. I do have a lot to put in there.. hehe, nah it'll have to wait till tomorrow.

I did almost screw up my no fap rule tonight. This chick I'm talking to sent me some pictures...and wanted one back...well, you know in order to return the pic, there has to be some substance, and in order to get there from here...well you know how that goes. LOONG story short, I had to force myself to not do it. I'm good now tho.
 

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Well watching porn and resisting temptation made the will stronger and just to avoid it completely would mean that you can only control yourself if it isn't available and as soon as it become available you aren't master of your domain anymore. lol well that's how I saw it.
 

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Justin Time said:
LMFAO. hahahha this is great!!

I'm on day 18. I got laid four times in one day a couple days ago, so you've definitely had it tougher than me :D. Anyway man, 84 days is a long a$$ time!! I've apparently become a douche since I started no fap :crackup: Oh well, fvck em! Maybe I should update my jounal. I do have a lot to put in there.. hehe, nah it'll have to wait till tomorrow.

I did almost screw up my no fap rule tonight. This chick I'm talking to sent me some pictures...and wanted one back...well, you know in order to return the pic, there has to be some substance, and in order to get there from here...well you know how that goes. LOONG story short, I had to force myself to not do it. I'm good now tho.
You do feel little bit on the edge since you are in the early stage but trust me it gets better. Also if you work out you'll see more focus and aggression.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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