"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chamber36

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Man.

I ****ed a 40 yr old fishy c*unt blonde ***** last week. Three days later some Mexican tourist bitc*h. I fvck em and I wonder to myself "Why am I even fvcking you?".... Those c*unts are below par. Below me. Below standard.

Then I see b*tches that I want to fvck. B*tches that look impeccable. They giggle. They laugh. They're polite. They're hot. They squat. But they don't really pay me any attention. I see them and I realise I need "game". Those b*tches I dunno if it's cash I need or what, to show them value. It's just "Game". Real PUA, David DeAngelo, Mystery Method, Ross Jeffries or whatever, GAME.

It's pissing me off. Do I have to apply my intelligence now in 90% of my interactions with b*tches in order to manipulate them into fvcking me? I can't do that.

I just want to be honest and raw, but that's tactless. Game is there for a reason. Jeeesus.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's not so much game you need, rather than self-belief. And more practice and reflection.

Despite advice to the contrary, everyone acts different around people that they consider lower value, compared to those they consider higher value. The ideal of 'treat all women the same' is exactly that: it's idealistic rather than realistic. For me, getting as close to your own natural personality as you can is the best you can hope for, while also being honest about your own weakness and attempting to reform or counteract them in some way.

At the moment, even though you aspire to attract high quality, you believe you have to settle for low quality (on occasion), because that's what you do. This belief will somehow be reflected in your behaviour with everyone, regardless of whether you are aware of it or not. You probably give off a level of thirst.

Being a true contender means understanding that all women need a different approach. A Unique approach that is largely reactionary to the individual and situation. Methods are all well and good for practice and complete novices; but it's mindset that will transcend the self to a more natural aura.

Literally it's your belief system that's your main obstacle. You're settling for low grade results rather than spending that time meeting hotter prospects and honing skills and mindset.

Quality begets quality, begets success, begets confidence, begets further quality and success.

Put it this way. I no longer settle for anything I consider lower than an 8/10. This is how women naturally think themselves. Associating with low value individuals brings your own average value down. This goes for everyone you associate with, not just women.
 

Von

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They are choosing you, and making it very easy for you. I'd imagine.



You want them to come pick you up, instead. You need to get over that.

They look like that to attract masculine men who are dominant.



The unexamined life is not worth living.

What I really hear is you saying "I want the hottest girls to come over and put their hand down my trousers. And I shouldn't have to make any effort".



Then be honest and raw. That can be your "thing".

Just make more effort.
Doesnt effort makes you look fake?

I agree to what you say if "effort = more work"... more work being: self-improvement and expérience gains
 

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Well I don't want to over-analyse the situation.

Don't want to apologize either for the drunken rant. Met a nice girl yesterday, realised my game ain't that bad after all.

It's like when I don't sleep well or don't eat well I get cranky.

What happened was that a chick (solid 9/10 for most of you fvckers im sure) that I had been gaming has been playin around with me and it pissed me off. I got to work (at a bar) after a long freakin day of school and barely any sleep, then I see she gets there with some other dude (for the second time) and she asks me "are you mad at me now?".

That's the reason I was pissed off. After a few drinks and talkin to some more chicks I felt better.

Anyway, fvck you guys who are gonna say "ohhh !! You're letting the girls play you like a fiddle cuz ur a beta noob".

So yeah.

I'll never forget what I read in Iceberg Slim - Pimp: the most important thing when pimping is to remain well-rested, well groomed and looking sharp.

Yesterday when going out wearing a hugo boss shirt, chest showing, gold chain lol, and new expensive hair product in my hair, looking and smelling like a million bucks, everything is perfect. Also, I was completely rested and had eaten a good steak.

So It's weird. My game is improving.

It's funny though, because like, according to Mystery, it's smart to wait 10 mins to compliment a girl, lol. Whereas I just realised today that complimenting a girl is a way to create a little distance between you and the girl, which she can then close between the two of you (if she so chooses). It's non-manipulative as well.

So sometimes I suppose I get confused lol. So I guess I should indeed just trust in myself more. Like I said, most important thing is grooming and being well-rested. If I am then in a state of self-fulfillment (which I should be, since I just got my license and I'm doing good in school, thank god), I shouldn't be allowing anyone to drain my energy. As I grow up (27 now), I am learning that. A lot of people are energy drains, and it's best to ignore them. That's why I enjoy doing the job that I do. I collect fvckin glasses at the bar instead of serving people drinks, because if I were to serve drinks I'd have to fvckin communicate with people that are energy drains. Even the hot girls that I see, trying to order drinks from me are energy drains. Just hogging for attention, using their looks to their own advantage. Some are charming though. Alright so thats it for me for today.

Have a good saturday night. Take it easy all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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