So i've been doing this for a while now.... and something still itches on my mind that i can't get off my chest...
I'd first like to start off by saying that everyday when we go out, we see the naturals, the guys who arent that good looking, but say stupid stuff and get girls to flirt and be playful with them.
I- am like many of the guys here (probably) not bad looking, got friends, and everything else.
**Here's the thing that bothers me.... Whenever i approach or a girl sits beside me, all the other girls are very shocked. Its like if i start talking to a girl, its really obvious that i want to hook up with her and a lot of other girls take this seriously whereas with a Natural, most girls would just brush this "act" off and ignore it.
I mean, is it really so shocking to see me talking with another girl that they HAVE to say something about it?
Sometimes they'll even be as direct as "Why are you sitting there?" or "Why are you talking to each other?" or they'd ****block or something.
I know im not as "outgoing" or anyhting, i can speak very confidently and freely when i need to, and can get peope to like me easily, its just that its always a shock to girl especially whenever they see me hitting on another girl. sometimes they'd even say "Do You like her...??"
It just bothers me because i dont know how they see me, because it WOULD be awkward to see a really really nerdy guy hitting on a hot girl (not sayin im like that) but i just hope they dont see me this way lol.
Please reply to this thread, and tell me if you encounter this stuff too... Why are they so shocked at my behaviour when other people do the same things as me all the time and nobody is ever shocked?
I'd first like to start off by saying that everyday when we go out, we see the naturals, the guys who arent that good looking, but say stupid stuff and get girls to flirt and be playful with them.
I- am like many of the guys here (probably) not bad looking, got friends, and everything else.
**Here's the thing that bothers me.... Whenever i approach or a girl sits beside me, all the other girls are very shocked. Its like if i start talking to a girl, its really obvious that i want to hook up with her and a lot of other girls take this seriously whereas with a Natural, most girls would just brush this "act" off and ignore it.
I mean, is it really so shocking to see me talking with another girl that they HAVE to say something about it?
Sometimes they'll even be as direct as "Why are you sitting there?" or "Why are you talking to each other?" or they'd ****block or something.
I know im not as "outgoing" or anyhting, i can speak very confidently and freely when i need to, and can get peope to like me easily, its just that its always a shock to girl especially whenever they see me hitting on another girl. sometimes they'd even say "Do You like her...??"
It just bothers me because i dont know how they see me, because it WOULD be awkward to see a really really nerdy guy hitting on a hot girl (not sayin im like that) but i just hope they dont see me this way lol.
Please reply to this thread, and tell me if you encounter this stuff too... Why are they so shocked at my behaviour when other people do the same things as me all the time and nobody is ever shocked?
