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[Docs]

Semi-FR.

For those who don't believe that there are indeed girls that are cuddly and all that by nature, I just found one, but my..is it quite interesting and so full of AFC behaviour..man.

Alright, I don't know how the hell this worked out, but we'll see.

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So this is someone totally new, me and buddy picked her up at around 11, went to a bar to play pool. She didnt' play and buddy gave up because I was whipping his ass. All in all, should of left this part out.

Went back to buddy's house and she was intriqued by the dogs. She sat down on another chair. But there's one dog that is scared so she was all aww about it. I eventually coaxed her that the dog would sit down here if she came over (I didn't lie..), and she sat down. She said something about a space bubble, so she wasn't comfortable with me if I moved any closer in. Later on, I found her weakness of being tickled . Oh score. I guess the first really cuddly part is when we got the laptop with buddy signed on, so we messed around for a bit, and he let us read this email. We were close, and we kinda stayed that way. Another tickle war and she was petting my hair telling me to grow it.

Time....1:30-2p.

The only thing I really did DJ was well...tickle. lol

Onwards, they both had this idea to make me wear darker clothes, spike my hair and attack me with makeup. I didnt' allow the last one. So now I have been spiked. We then watched a movie together, she was comfortable with me at this point, randomly poking each other and the whatsuch.

We went to buddy's dentist and the dummy took forever, but more cuddling and talking about music and other conversation do-dads. The windows were fogging up..and we didn't do anything yet.

Finally...when I needed to go for a piss..he was done. Yay! Home to decide on supper.

Another part-movie...same story.

Finally...buddy had to do something, so we all drove, dropped him off, and it was just me and her. We were hungry, so we hunted down some pizza, she was commenting on how she was gonna die in the car...lol, silly. Held her hand for comfort. She's a slow truster.

I pulled into what I swear is the makeout spot of my city, but it was only to show a view. We then went down to our marina and took a walk to get more food. Picked her up and carried her across snow field. Hand holding to the place and back, more trust with 3 people that walked past us..lol, she's weird.

We got back to the car...and we just cuddled for a hour, talking and kinoing each other. It was good.

If you don't think I got a kiss close from this..just wait...she bit me on the neck....twice! I bit her back (she asked) and then I had to get her home.

So..we finally get home, she thanks me for the day and yes...a kiss close.

I then proceeded to get lost on the way home..oops.

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Don't opinionize on my actions alone. I know how fucked up this was and how I really didn't act to spec.

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I think this was sheer luck. Besides KINO, that's all I did. I've learnt that she came out of a LTR a few weeks ago, so ehh..red flag.

From talking to her, she's all into the piercing and tattoo world, whereas I'm not, and that's the biggest red flag for me. She's not my type.

To observe the entire day, she's got a high amount of attraction, wanting me to grow my hair and stuff, and us being so comfortable in a day...can't say she isn't attracted..

I'm a LTR person myself, but I only have 4 months here (this was a concern for her..but I think she forgot at this stage). She is a LTR person, but not my type.

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Here's the final question.
Should I downgrade us to plotanic friends, seeing as there's a bunch of red flags. She's got the interest and attraction, and the comfort, so I can't say I failed, even with the lack of things. I probably could easily obtain her as a girlfriend, but even though I like her, I can only see the attention I'll get, but not the compatibility I'm looking for.

Opinions? (ie: no useless comments?)

 

[So pimp its scary]

This is one of those 'be honest' type situations.

Although you could have boned that girl that night, but to each his own.

 

[Don Juans Mother]

Doc can eat his own words.

"I now command you to stop writing about it!!!! Will some online anonymous person be able to give you the magical rock that will make your problem go away? Nope."

How the **** did a noob like you get put in the DJ bible? You're obviously a fag.

 

[Docs]

I shall now throw naive young one into ocean.

Should I downgrade us to plotanic friends, seeing as there's a bunch of red flags. She's got the interest and attraction, and the comfort, so I can't say I failed, even with the lack of things. I probably could easily obtain her as a girlfriend, but even though I like her, I can only see the attention I'll get, but not the compatibility I'm looking for.

I obvisously know what the hell I am doing.

I also know how to analyze something, unlike yourself. I can see the flags, I'm not dumbfounded by one-itis. Am I in love with her and I want to be with her forever and ever and ever. No. That is the difference betwen the two posts.

You need to RE-read the newbie journey, and then come back and compare the differences before you shoot your mouth off again. You should see that nowhere is there an indication that I have one-itis, or that I am bitching or complaining about her.

Learn to read, understand something and don't act like such a tool.

Edit: Oh, and there's a such thing as asking for help. I'm not God you know.

 

[Don Juans Mother]

You're definately not God, but you're definately a faggot.

 

[Docs]

Does anyone else have anything to constructively add?

 

[mastersF]

I have a feeling that she might get clingy if things are not clearly stated soon.

 

[Docs]

Thank you! ^^, (for replying..lola)

Yeah, I keep talking to her online, and she definitely is not quiet. I'm learning a bunch from her still.

Oh, to those that think online is bad, you have no idea what you are talking about. Sure, it's not the greatest way to talk to most girls, but it works in some cases

 

[Don Juans Mother]

Originally posted by Docs
Thank you! ^^, (for replying..lola)

Yeah, I keep talking to her online, and she definitely is not quiet. I'm learning a bunch from her still.

Oh, to those that think online is bad, you have no idea what you are talking about. Sure, it's not the greatest way to talk to most girls, but it works in some cases

You're a fag... still.

 

[Don Juans Mother]

Thanks Virgin Mary for your opinions.

 

[Docs]

The_Shezzler, you have once again written an excellent response. Looking back, you are fully correct in saying that I need not worry about acting like the idolized DJ, because I acted one higher, like a True Don Juan.

I thank you for the inspiration you continue to display.

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As for Don Juans Mother, I have to do this. You have some serious issues. You do not go shooting your mouth off to people, especially commenting irrationally to one of the best posters on the board, and myself. I hope that for whatever meaning this has, you smarten up a little alright?

Thank you.

 

[Don Juans Mother]

I am being smart. You should be on a forum for picking up mangina.

 

[Docs]

I'll take offense to that, a moderator has been informed.

 

[Don Juans Mother]

Oh big man!