"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Russian Women on Internet Dating Site. WTF?

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sapphire

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I signed up for matchmaker.com and for the past week, my mailbox has been flooded by responses from Russian women seeking "longterm relationships". I must say that some of the pictures of them, assuming they are legit, portray really beautiful women, including one that was a dead ringer for ( I forgot her name, that Russian tennis star who recently married Enrique Iglesias)

Is this too good to be true and just a scam? I'd like opinions please
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by sapphire
I signed up for matchmaker.com and for the past week, my mailbox has been flooded by responses from Russian women seeking "longterm relationships". I must say that some of the pictures of them, assuming they are legit, portray really beautiful women, including one that was a dead ringer for ( I forgot her name, tha Russian tennis star who recently married Enrique Iglesias)

Is this too good to be true and just a scam? I'd like opinions please
yea its really her ;) , GO FOR IT!!!! :rolleyes:
 

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My crystal ball says it's true.

uhhhhhhmmmmmmmm....

Just find out by talking to them lol. And dont' spend money on them.

Eastern European chicks are great, though a bit traditional-minded (committed LTR etc) in my experience.
 

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they are mail over russian bridge maids

probably got divorced or looking for someone more rich and divorced her current husband
 

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They're basically online ordered brides moving into the online dating scene. If you want a brainless h0, go for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sapphire

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Yea. By reading their responses you can really sense the desperation.
 

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THEY WANT TO GET MARRIED TO GET PERMINANT RESIDENCE IN THE US. RUSSIA SUCKS.
 

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I say leave it alone. WHo the hell wants Russian scum ?
 

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
I say leave it alone. WHo the hell wants Russian scum ?

Someone who's tired of obese American chicks?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
I say leave it alone. WHo the hell wants Russian scum ?
Are you calling russians scum?

If so, you are a shallow ****bag who needs to stfu and grow up.

Actually, most russian chicks I know are far better quality then American ones.
 
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