"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Russian Women Fans - Prove Me Wrong

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Whenever the subject of geographical areas of hottitude arises, there are a number of posters who claim Russia/Eastern Europe host the most. But to me, while there are of course beautiful babes everywhere (except Scotland), most of the Soviet /Polish/Czech chicks I see seem to be quite large-faced and butch. Not really my type.

But I'm happy to be proven wrong, so if anyone wants to post pics of lovely Ukrainian stunners or Russkie 10s I'd be interested in seeing what you are peddling.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've never been into the whole eastern european look myself, either. Although there are definitely lots of hotties.
 
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Lots of them are blonde with fair skin and blue eyes ... yum. I love English girls and anything similar to English girls in general. I hate girls of my own ethnicity(s) though and anything similar to it in general. I must have issues lol.

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Nighthawk said:
Whenever the subject of geographical areas of hottitude arises, there are a number of posters who claim Russia/Eastern Europe host the most. But to me, while there are of course beautiful babes everywhere (except Scotland), most of the Soviet /Polish/Czech chicks I see seem to be quite large-faced and butch. Not really my type.

But I'm happy to be proven wrong, so if anyone wants to post pics of lovely Ukrainian stunners or Russkie 10s I'd be interested in seeing what you are peddling.
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I'm rather surprised, I find lotsa chicks with Scottish decent very hot. Blonde hair blue eyes.
 
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I'm rather surprised, I find lotsa chicks with Scottish decent very hot. Blonde hair blue eyes.
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More like fat and ginger. Name me a famous scotch hottie - there are none. Wales on the other hand is crawling with them for some reason.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My business revolves around visa registration and invites to Russia, Belarus, and Ukraine. So I spend a lot of time in the area. Gorgeous girls. Nothing compares if you know how to choose. Too bad most of the western men all end up getting hustled in the nightclubs and bars.
 
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My business revolves around visa registration and invites to Russia, Belarus, and Ukraine. So I spend a lot of time in the area. Gorgeous girls. Nothing compares if you know how to choose. Too bad most of the western men all end up getting hustled in the nightclubs and bars.
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Show me a pic.
 
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Nighthawk said:
Whenever the subject of geographical areas of hottitude arises, there are a number of posters who claim Russia/Eastern Europe host the most. But to me, while there are of course beautiful babes everywhere (except Scotland), most of the Soviet /Polish/Czech chicks I see seem to be quite large-faced and butch. Not really my type.

But I'm happy to be proven wrong, so if anyone wants to post pics of lovely Ukrainian stunners or Russkie 10s I'd be interested in seeing what you are peddling.
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Yeah, I noticed that too. They look kinda manly..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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As far as I can tell Hungary has the largest deposits of stupidly hot women on earth but then maybe I'm wrong.
 
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white women are mostly fukking revolting. face it.
 
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This is just a bad thread... beauty is in the eye of the beholder... looks are subjective. Some people might find russian girls ugly, and some AFCs pick up fat cows and think they struck gold. There's no way to prove russian girls are hot... just find what you enjoy and go for it
 
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I know some really nice russian chicks, myself.

I don't think there is any difference in hottitiude throughout the world... every ethnicity and culture has its babes and it's butches.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1 - Fly to Eastern Europe
2 - Take a lot of pictures
3 - Post pix of YOUR vacation
 
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Nighthawk said:
More like fat and ginger. Name me a famous scotch hottie - there are none. Wales on the other hand is crawling with them for some reason.
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Shirley Manson of Garbage. She is scottish. She is a hottie.
 
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Shirley Manson of Garbage. She is scottish. She is a hottie.
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I don't consider her any where near hot. Besides she's 42 and married.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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