Russian girl

[Freakmuscle]

Hello, Everyone
First of all, It's so nice to be here. I think I could get many advice here. I speak English as a second language. So your patient and understanding will be highly appreciated. Thanks

I'm 24 years old, 5 ' 7 / 220 pounds (I'm a competitive Bodybuilder). I'm studying at the UNI.

O.k her is my story

I'd like to ask " How shoould i go further with this girl?"
"How should i develop relationship more than firends"

I'm currenlty meet this russian girl at the school. WE're more than a casual firends. I'm seeing her twice a week in the economic class. I helped her to get Course guide and gave her good impression as a person. It was my first approach which was very natural. Then, She helped me to submit my term paper when I had to go somewhere. We met at the snack bar once a week to talk about problems. I made her relax and opened her mind. So far so good.

A week ago, I teased her that "You look like a boy, Your voice sounds like a boy " I tried to convince her that I treat her like a friend just like other boys. She was so shocked and said "Pleae expalin to me blah blah....." Then she looks very upset and care what i said. She's actully top hotty that i ever met.
After that, She acted that I gave her scar tissue or something.

O.k This is what happend.
I don't know what to do next. I'm not a Dj at all
Should I treat her nice next time. I'm thinking about buying a lunch for her while being nice. It's like a attack and withdraw.
So It's gonna be a good excuse for me to meet her again as an apology.

Thanks for reading. Any advice will be higly appreciated.
Have a good day

 

[Ice Cold]

Welcome. What's your first language?

You sound really confused. I can't really tell what's going on from what you said.

Try kissing her on the cheek and huggin her. See what she does.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by Freakmuscle
... I'd like to ask " How shoould i go further with this girl?"
"How should i develop relationship more than firends"...

Here's a radical idea... ask her out on a date

 

[rgeere]

His writting is apparently slanted towards someone who speaks a slavic language.

Verstehst du mich besser auf Deutsch? Veilleicht sollst du sie ja fuer einen Party oder eine andere Eirignisse einladen? Dann kannst du "kino" (d.h. der weg der Erfuehlung) einsetzen und in der naehe von ihr kuessen und mitkommen.

 

[improvingdonjuan]

govorite po-russkiy da?
otkuda vy?

 

[DrMetallica]

govaree pa-russki c yeyo. She'll be more than impressed .

 

[Freakmuscle]

Hi, Thanks for response guys.

My first language is korean. I speak russian just a little bit.

Such as

Davaizzy Buzznakomimcya. menya gaboot ...
Kak bbozibayezze... Very basic expression like.. Ya idu doma...
Sibodnya ochin holodna. BBA chom? ......

Thannks for the russian gentlemen here.

O.k
I didn't ask her to go out yet. I lived in america,europe and Australia. SO I'm kinda really mixed in terms of education and culture. I felt that she's a bit different with other european girls that i used to go out with.
So i need a little bit of different approach.

I'd like to tell you what i know about her. O.k
Again patient and understanding will be appreciated.

I noticed that she's been through a lot of ****. It seems to me that she's got some story that she never wants to talk about.
She's from Uzbekistan. She's been here for about 2 years for making money. Then, She enterd my uni in junior year.
I asked her about family. But she said" I don't have such ..."
She opened her mind that we can share the problem.
but she never talks about her mom and dad.
She told me about her Cousin. She said" I can't comunicate with them" Because They lie eachother for making money. She hates her country so much(uzbekistan). She left there for finding better future for herself. She tole me that she wants live here.
She's 29 years old. Most of russian girls come here for making oney. Most of them are in entertainment business such as dancer or prostitue etc.

O.k guys

I was thinking that I could heal her in some degree. But i don't know whether I should leave her alone or something. For example, I could invite her for family dinner sometimes. So She could less care about bad memories with her cousin in uzbekistan. I could show her happy family gatherings. I don't usually invite someone. But I thought it once. What ya think?


Could anyone tell me how to aproach this russian girl?
I think "Bad boy for life" is not the attitude for this girl.
Becasue, She's too poor. I hope someone puts me on the right direction before i even start relationship.


Also, It's nice to learn some of the phrase that i can use.
How to say
" I'm sorry that i said you're a boy "
" I'd like to go out with you "
"I'd like to buy your lunch as an apolozy"

thanks
Any advice will be appreciated

 

[DrMetallica]

Originally posted by Freakmuscle


Davaizzy Buzznakomimcya. menya gaboot ...
Kak bbozibayezze... Very basic expression like.. Ya idu doma...
Sibodnya ochin holodna. BBA chom? ......

LMAO

She hates her country so much(uzbekistan).

My girlfriend is from uzbekistan... so is her family and so is one of my friends at my school. Yeh, Uzebekistan is a sh*thole.

 

[Tango-Kid]

Dr.Metallica, you come from america? You ever been to uzbekistan?

 

[EternalBachelor]

I would not put too much effort into "rescuing" this girl, or discussing her problems. Your role should be to give this girl a fun time, not letting her dwell on her problems. Keep fun as the focus, if you are not having fun then no matter how hot the girl is or how sorry you feel for her, you are better off with another girl. Plus the language barrier may make things difficult.

Telling her she looked like a boy was not a good idea. How would you feel if she said you looked like a girl? I suggest a sincere apology and yes asking her out to lunch would be a good idea.