"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Russian girl coming to my country

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Hello all,

Quite a bit of a different situation Im used to:
Last year while in vacation in Spain, i met this russian girl with whom i just chatted and flirted a bit. Exchanged fb and never talked again.

After almost a year (never talked to her meanwhile, only feedback i had was a few likes on my pics in fb), she s coming to my country and will be at my town for a night. Said she wants to meet me.

Considering the very short window opportunity (just one night, and at the midle of the week with me working next day), what would be your approach? I was thinking in dinner out, couple of drinks at a bar and then see what happens, but obviously i intend to f*ck her as quickly as possible :).

Any suggestions are welcome.

Ty

Edit: she s like trillionaire russian so dinner and bar would be somewhat chic lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thank you for your reply but im well aware of it :)

As i told you im looking for help on what plans would you do with the girl in order to maximize outcome, not quite how to treat her lol.
 
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Take her to wherever you like to go and don't worry about impressing her. Its your life and your country she is visiting, so do YOUR thing... I frequent two bars and one of them is a real redneck dive close to where I live. But that's where I go, that's who I am, and they are allowed to join me. And if they cant handle the things that go on at my bar then they can't handle me so..... NNNNNneeeeext....
 
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1. Get drinks
2. Take back to your place for sex.
3. More sex.
4. If still early, get dinner.
5. More sex.

Any questions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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