"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Russian girl coming to my country

Lolito

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Hello all,

Quite a bit of a different situation Im used to:
Last year while in vacation in Spain, i met this russian girl with whom i just chatted and flirted a bit. Exchanged fb and never talked again.

After almost a year (never talked to her meanwhile, only feedback i had was a few likes on my pics in fb), she s coming to my country and will be at my town for a night. Said she wants to meet me.

Considering the very short window opportunity (just one night, and at the midle of the week with me working next day), what would be your approach? I was thinking in dinner out, couple of drinks at a bar and then see what happens, but obviously i intend to f*ck her as quickly as possible :).

Any suggestions are welcome.

Ty

Edit: she s like trillionaire russian so dinner and bar would be somewhat chic lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lolito

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Thank you for your reply but im well aware of it :)

As i told you im looking for help on what plans would you do with the girl in order to maximize outcome, not quite how to treat her lol.
 

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Take her to wherever you like to go and don't worry about impressing her. Its your life and your country she is visiting, so do YOUR thing... I frequent two bars and one of them is a real redneck dive close to where I live. But that's where I go, that's who I am, and they are allowed to join me. And if they cant handle the things that go on at my bar then they can't handle me so..... NNNNNneeeeext....
 
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1. Get drinks
2. Take back to your place for sex.
3. More sex.
4. If still early, get dinner.
5. More sex.

Any questions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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