"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Russian Dancers in Egypt [pictures]

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Just got back from my 2-week vacation in Amsterdam, Cairo, and Sharm El Sheikh (Egypt). While I scuba dived virtually every day I still managed to find one night to go out on - though getting wasted before diving is generally a "no-no". I brought along my camera and took some shots of a few of the Russian dancers that were at Pasha, the club I went to. I'm putting up some more "vacationy" pictures in a different thread; these I thought deserved their own spot. Enjoy, more will probably follow.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Alpine
Why do you think most of the pics are from behind?
Must have been my subconcious... I just looked at all of the pictures I took of them that night. Out of 54 pictures of the dancers, 46 don't show their faces. :p
 

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wow diablo you close threads because they have been discused a million times, or because you can google it to find an answer, well im sure you can google this if you want to find porn, guess you better close your thread.
 

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Thanks for the advice. While I wouldn't classify fully-clothed pictures of females dancing "pornography", I understand that different cultures have different interpretations of the same thing. Being British, and 17, I suppose allowances must be made... though what you'll do when you start going out to bars where girls dance with *gasp* scanty clothing on is beyond me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by diablo
Thanks for the advice. While I wouldn't classify fully-clothed pictures of females dancing "pornography", I understand that different cultures have different interpretations of the same thing. Being British, and 17, I suppose allowances must be made... though what you'll do when you start going out to bars where girls dance with *gasp* scanty clothing on is beyond me.
haha very funny they already done it at school discos since i was 14, i know its not pron as such because they are not nude, im makiing a point here if we want to pictures of hot girls we can look on google, so why if you can post this can we not post stuff which is talked aobut before or cna be found on google.
 

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Great photography diablo.

Hey did you visit the temple of karnack (sp) while you were in egypt? I thought it to be one of the coolest set of ruins in egypt when i visited. Also did you try that egyptian beer made from sugar cane? I thought that stuff was kinda weird tasting. What's with the egyptians and sugar anyway?
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
im makiing a point here if we want to pictures of hot girls we can look on google, so why if you can post this can we not post stuff which is talked aobut before or cna be found on google.
You're upset because I closed the thread you made in H&F in which you enlightened the world to the benefits of tuna fish. :rolleyes: Get over it.

To answer your other questions, I'd like to quote Pook:
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4) If a subject has been posted in a thread, post in the existing thread, do NOT make a new thread.

9) If you have a question or a post idea, read the bible or use the SEARCH feature first.
Obviously you can post whatever you'd like. However, since the forum already has a large number of threads dealing with tuna fish, it might help if you follow #4 (which you'd have known about if you'd followed #9). If you want to post pictures of girls that you've taken (which I've done many, many times) then by all means go for it. This is Anything Else, after all.


PR, I didn't check out that spot while I was there. I went to Cairo for 3 days and then Sharm El Sheikh (Red Sea, to scuba dive) for 8. In Cairo I went to the pyramids and the Khan El Khalili, on the way back from Sharm I visited Mt. Sinai (where Moses got the 10 commandments and did the burning bush thing). The beer you're thinking of is called Stella - I think - and it tastes bizarre. I stuck with Heineken.
 

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nice post, looks like good times. Christ I could bounce quarters off a few of those girls asses.
 

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The chick in picture 4 looks like she had a c - section.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
The chick in picture 4 looks like she had a c - section.



Looks more like appendectomy. Tight bod though. Oooh rugged Russian women...
 

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Tuna fish is actually a very good food to eat when lifting.
 
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