"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Russia has plenty of fat free women, and women who are more likely to listen to men. Apart from that there is nothing great about it. Its a cold country where the masses are not exactly living in comfort and the people are a pretty miserable and closed off bunch by many accounts.
 

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Apart from that there is nothing great about it. Its a cold country where the masses are not exactly living in comfort and the people are a pretty miserable and closed off bunch by many accounts.
So, just like us then?.........Apart from the fact half of our women are now basically unphuckable unless it's a slumpbuster or 2am last drinks call and you've been striking out all night. Oh and 1 out of every 4 of the other half are now on antidepressants. Just saying you can tell a lot about a country by which ones men tend to scour the globe for satisfaction. (inb4 they don't coz poor)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So, just like us then?.........Apart from the fact half of our women are now basically unphuckable unless it's a slumpbuster or 2am last drinks call and you've been striking out all night. Oh and 1 out of every 4 of the other half are now on antidepressants. Just saying you can tell a lot about a country by which ones men tend to scour the globe for satisfaction. (inb4 they don't coz poor)
People are doing anti-depressants because it is readily available, the pharmaceutical companies have marketed it and it is option that is readily available. Just like with cigarettes, it was readily available so many people indulged in it. In recent decades, the negatives have been highlighted so less and less people do it.

As for sex tourists, a couple of decades ago only older gentlemen with money to part in visited destinations such as Thailand as se* tourists. But now its more accessible so youngers do it too. But in the grand scheme of things the percentage of younger guys doing the s*x tourist thing is a small percentage as a whole of the mass population.

People who frequent such forums as this tend to have difficulties picking up (ok that does not apply to every single user) and so 'puas' who do se* tourist thing is larger. But on the whole the number of guys who have problems meeting chicks as a pecentage of the whole is small(er). So to use that to say things are sh** in the West is a bit exaggerated.

Every country under the sun have their own set of problems no doubt. But surely you'd agree the living conditions in the USA say for the average person is better then in Russia.
 

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But surely you'd agree the living conditions in the USA say for the average person is better then in Russia.
I thought we were talking about levels of happiness? Anyway I think you'll find we are both at a tipping point. Where once they were and are slowly recovering from we are now moving in. With their nation wanting traditional Christianity and the morality it's based on and us pushing for cultural Marxism and regular firings and "re-education" training etc for (white) men who do wrongspeak and hordes of miserable useful idiot SJW's at the ready to shine a light on the wrongthinkers it doesn't take a genius to figure out what's going on and which direction each country is headed.

The only difference is they were lucky enough to be a largely homogeneous society who basically shared the same values and can recover. We are a multikulti and thus atomized society with no traditional cultural bonds that tie us together anymore which will assure even when regular Joe bozo off the street does wake up to what's going on it won't make a lick of difference.

Sound fair?
 
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I thought we were talking about levels of happiness?
I would put money on the average Russian male not being happy - even if compared to an American male's happiness.

Sure, Eastern European women are touted as some of the hottest on earth (for good reason), but what has that done for the males?

Their economic system probably deserves more of the blame than the actual people, but since you made this post.

They have some of the prettiest, most feminine women on earth, yet they tend to drink themselves to death more than most other countries. They do it so much that it's become an epidemic. Or should I say, it has been an epidemic for decades. Probably even longer than that.

I'm not saying that America is any better - especially not in its current state - I'm just saying.
 

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I'm not saying that America is any better - especially not in its current state - I'm just saying.
Fair enough and I'm glad you made that distinction. Don't forget I did also make the disclaimer that YKW had them under Communist rule for what? 79 years. That's probably not an easy thing to just shake off. I also said now that Orthodox Christianity and the values it's based on is on the rise their happiness levels will also begin to rise, whilst Western countries embracing cultural Marxism as their new religion will start to plummet.


And funny enough I was right.


 
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Fair enough and I'm glad you made that distinction. Don't forget I did also make the disclaimer that YKW had them under Communist rule for what? 79 years. That's probably not an easy thing to just shake off. I also said now that Orthodox Christianity and the values it's based on is on the rise their happiness levels will also begin to rise, whilst Western countries embracing cultural Marxism as their new religion will start to plummet.


And funny enough I was right.
Yeah, the numbers I read (which I pulled up with a quick search) said that their alcohol death rates fluctuated over the past few decades, depending on the laws in place. It was stuff like, when they stopped serving vodka before noon, the death rate plummeted. lol They also said that homemade alcohol went up at the same time as the restrictions. So either way, Russian males are getting fvcked up.

I binge drink, too, so I'm not talking down by any means. Just saying. Why do they feel the need to get hammered constantly? Poverty? Lack of purpose?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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