"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Russia has plenty of fat free women, and women who are more likely to listen to men. Apart from that there is nothing great about it. Its a cold country where the masses are not exactly living in comfort and the people are a pretty miserable and closed off bunch by many accounts.
 

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Apart from that there is nothing great about it. Its a cold country where the masses are not exactly living in comfort and the people are a pretty miserable and closed off bunch by many accounts.
So, just like us then?.........Apart from the fact half of our women are now basically unphuckable unless it's a slumpbuster or 2am last drinks call and you've been striking out all night. Oh and 1 out of every 4 of the other half are now on antidepressants. Just saying you can tell a lot about a country by which ones men tend to scour the globe for satisfaction. (inb4 they don't coz poor)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So, just like us then?.........Apart from the fact half of our women are now basically unphuckable unless it's a slumpbuster or 2am last drinks call and you've been striking out all night. Oh and 1 out of every 4 of the other half are now on antidepressants. Just saying you can tell a lot about a country by which ones men tend to scour the globe for satisfaction. (inb4 they don't coz poor)
People are doing anti-depressants because it is readily available, the pharmaceutical companies have marketed it and it is option that is readily available. Just like with cigarettes, it was readily available so many people indulged in it. In recent decades, the negatives have been highlighted so less and less people do it.

As for sex tourists, a couple of decades ago only older gentlemen with money to part in visited destinations such as Thailand as se* tourists. But now its more accessible so youngers do it too. But in the grand scheme of things the percentage of younger guys doing the s*x tourist thing is a small percentage as a whole of the mass population.

People who frequent such forums as this tend to have difficulties picking up (ok that does not apply to every single user) and so 'puas' who do se* tourist thing is larger. But on the whole the number of guys who have problems meeting chicks as a pecentage of the whole is small(er). So to use that to say things are sh** in the West is a bit exaggerated.

Every country under the sun have their own set of problems no doubt. But surely you'd agree the living conditions in the USA say for the average person is better then in Russia.
 

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But surely you'd agree the living conditions in the USA say for the average person is better then in Russia.
I thought we were talking about levels of happiness? Anyway I think you'll find we are both at a tipping point. Where once they were and are slowly recovering from we are now moving in. With their nation wanting traditional Christianity and the morality it's based on and us pushing for cultural Marxism and regular firings and "re-education" training etc for (white) men who do wrongspeak and hordes of miserable useful idiot SJW's at the ready to shine a light on the wrongthinkers it doesn't take a genius to figure out what's going on and which direction each country is headed.

The only difference is they were lucky enough to be a largely homogeneous society who basically shared the same values and can recover. We are a multikulti and thus atomized society with no traditional cultural bonds that tie us together anymore which will assure even when regular Joe bozo off the street does wake up to what's going on it won't make a lick of difference.

Sound fair?
 
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I thought we were talking about levels of happiness?
I would put money on the average Russian male not being happy - even if compared to an American male's happiness.

Sure, Eastern European women are touted as some of the hottest on earth (for good reason), but what has that done for the males?

Their economic system probably deserves more of the blame than the actual people, but since you made this post.

They have some of the prettiest, most feminine women on earth, yet they tend to drink themselves to death more than most other countries. They do it so much that it's become an epidemic. Or should I say, it has been an epidemic for decades. Probably even longer than that.

I'm not saying that America is any better - especially not in its current state - I'm just saying.
 

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I'm not saying that America is any better - especially not in its current state - I'm just saying.
Fair enough and I'm glad you made that distinction. Don't forget I did also make the disclaimer that YKW had them under Communist rule for what? 79 years. That's probably not an easy thing to just shake off. I also said now that Orthodox Christianity and the values it's based on is on the rise their happiness levels will also begin to rise, whilst Western countries embracing cultural Marxism as their new religion will start to plummet.


And funny enough I was right.


 
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Fair enough and I'm glad you made that distinction. Don't forget I did also make the disclaimer that YKW had them under Communist rule for what? 79 years. That's probably not an easy thing to just shake off. I also said now that Orthodox Christianity and the values it's based on is on the rise their happiness levels will also begin to rise, whilst Western countries embracing cultural Marxism as their new religion will start to plummet.


And funny enough I was right.
Yeah, the numbers I read (which I pulled up with a quick search) said that their alcohol death rates fluctuated over the past few decades, depending on the laws in place. It was stuff like, when they stopped serving vodka before noon, the death rate plummeted. lol They also said that homemade alcohol went up at the same time as the restrictions. So either way, Russian males are getting fvcked up.

I binge drink, too, so I'm not talking down by any means. Just saying. Why do they feel the need to get hammered constantly? Poverty? Lack of purpose?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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