"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rushed into relationship FAST... in over my head?

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Alright so background information... I am dating the redhead from wedding crashers. She fell for me FAST for no specific reason. Anyway, a week after we meet we are in the heat of things and somehow I convince myself that I feel good enough with her to be her boyfriend.

So... Now I have a girlfriend who I have only known a week... She is hot, but kinda crazy and is getting really jealous over exes/hot friends who flirt with me. Im starting to see there is a reason why this HOT girl was single.


THE QUESTION: Has anyone ever done this before? Does this relationship have a shot at working? we have chemistry but as we are getting to know each other there are some things I dont and do like. This is VERY not Don Juan.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so you're in a relationship with her. Who cares? Date her like any normal chick, don't treat her different from any chick you'd just "date" but aren't in a "relationship" with. As in, don't see her too often, talk to her with curiosity so you learn more about her.

Why would you being in a relationship with this girl be different from simply dating her? You still must maintain the challenge, so don't wimp up.
 
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ummmm DECREASE YOUR FREQUENCY..........dont be readily avaialble.........it aint rocket science.......your just a busy guy.
 
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