"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rushed into relationship FAST... in over my head?

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Alright so background information... I am dating the redhead from wedding crashers. She fell for me FAST for no specific reason. Anyway, a week after we meet we are in the heat of things and somehow I convince myself that I feel good enough with her to be her boyfriend.

So... Now I have a girlfriend who I have only known a week... She is hot, but kinda crazy and is getting really jealous over exes/hot friends who flirt with me. Im starting to see there is a reason why this HOT girl was single.


THE QUESTION: Has anyone ever done this before? Does this relationship have a shot at working? we have chemistry but as we are getting to know each other there are some things I dont and do like. This is VERY not Don Juan.
 

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so you're in a relationship with her. Who cares? Date her like any normal chick, don't treat her different from any chick you'd just "date" but aren't in a "relationship" with. As in, don't see her too often, talk to her with curiosity so you learn more about her.

Why would you being in a relationship with this girl be different from simply dating her? You still must maintain the challenge, so don't wimp up.
 
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ummmm DECREASE YOUR FREQUENCY..........dont be readily avaialble.........it aint rocket science.......your just a busy guy.
 
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