"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Running to lose weight?!?!

eba

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I've been trying (not really) to lose weight for quite awhile...Anyways...

If I run for lets say 5 days a week, at 30 minutes a day, will I be able to lose weight (assuming I'm following the CUTTING UP guide's instructions on nutrition and whatnot)?

Thanks for actual HELPFUL advice in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DIESEL

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yes. make sure you're lifting too, if not you'll end up nice and flabby.

D
 

eba

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By "lifting" you mean lifting weights?
 

Drug_L0rd

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HELL YES.

Originally posted by DIESEL
make sure you're lifting too, if not you'll end up nice and flabby.

D
WTF...wat exactly do u mean by "nice and flabby". if its wat i think u mean then...i dont know how you got the name you've got for yourself on this forum.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jive

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The two top posts tell you everything you need to know...for instance:

what I am trying to get at is that even though you lost a lot of weight - a ton of the weight lost was muscle not fat - so while the scale says you weigh 180 you still look flabby.

The phenomenon known as "skinny fat" - which is why traditional diets are crap.

Notice how they never show that dork Jared with his shirt off in those Subway commercials.
 
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