"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Running out of things to talk?

oneboy21

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have you guys ever came across this situation, whats the best way to deal with it. I was talking to this chic today and i ran out of things to talk to.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pdx1138

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whats going on in the world/news maybe or how it went at work.

I've had this happen too. I was quite concerned about figuring how to keep the conversation going with this one girl....it was a constant struggle, partly because she was so introverted.

funny thing is, my best friend and I always laugh about how we never run out of things to discuss. We've been friends for 25 years.
 

Jeffst1980

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This is an easy one:

"Ok- your turn to be interesting."
 

ALPHAROMEO

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SIGN OFF WITH " it was awesome meeting you ! here is my telephoe number ( you tender her the other half of paper with your pen
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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