"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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running out of stuff to talk about...

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solo1

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I've been seeing this girl for sometime now, but lately i've been running out of stuff to to talk about, particularly stuff to ask about.
I think we practically covered everything there is to cover...well aside from our childhood/past/secrets.

i dont know...i think i might be losing interest in this one. I feel like a fish in dead water.
Anyone have ideas for topic discussions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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work on your observing skills. I can create convo from almost any situation, just by being alert to what is around me. Lots of things can be funny and interesting, with enough imagination.
 
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