Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Running out of material

Solarium

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I read the Art of Gibberish from the DJ bible, and while understanding how one accomplish that, have completely no idea how to do it. I tried yesterday at the club after doing the 4 questions and the cube, but sh1t I just don't know what to talk about afterwards.

I'm relatively good at hooking people's attention initially and starting a convo. What's the best way to anchor their interests after the 1st 5 minutes?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BBJ1083

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You have got a lot to learn, but simply you must have floorless inner game and you will not have to question whether "I am running out of material".

Your interactions with women are not about material! Your interactions are about absorbing the excellent advice here and then being the true you, with true inner game to implement it. If you are doubting yourself to this degree then you need to start reading some more advice and doing some exercises, and improving the real you.

I learnt this lesson within a year of learning about the game and thankfully I am now past the stage of second guessing my own actions and what I have as canned material.

Simply- Keep it natural to your own self and your own personna and start flourishing as the man that you have always dreamed about being with women!
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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Exactly. You are not a comedian running out of material, you need to work on your inner game to end this dependence on gimmicks, before its too late and she sees what's going on. A DJ does not attempt to fool women into wanting him, he doesn't have to.
 
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