"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Running out of material

Solarium

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I read the Art of Gibberish from the DJ bible, and while understanding how one accomplish that, have completely no idea how to do it. I tried yesterday at the club after doing the 4 questions and the cube, but sh1t I just don't know what to talk about afterwards.

I'm relatively good at hooking people's attention initially and starting a convo. What's the best way to anchor their interests after the 1st 5 minutes?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BBJ1083

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You have got a lot to learn, but simply you must have floorless inner game and you will not have to question whether "I am running out of material".

Your interactions with women are not about material! Your interactions are about absorbing the excellent advice here and then being the true you, with true inner game to implement it. If you are doubting yourself to this degree then you need to start reading some more advice and doing some exercises, and improving the real you.

I learnt this lesson within a year of learning about the game and thankfully I am now past the stage of second guessing my own actions and what I have as canned material.

Simply- Keep it natural to your own self and your own personna and start flourishing as the man that you have always dreamed about being with women!
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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Exactly. You are not a comedian running out of material, you need to work on your inner game to end this dependence on gimmicks, before its too late and she sees what's going on. A DJ does not attempt to fool women into wanting him, he doesn't have to.
 
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