Running into past "one-itis" and laughing that I was ever interested

[altec]

Anyone have stories to share about seeing a one-itis/past girl that you had a crush one/etc many years later. In particular, in regards to girl that nothing ever happened with.

I had this thing for this girl I met through work. She was like a client but she was more a client of one of our customers so I had a passing interaction with her. I ended up giving her some advice on some work related things and got to talking to her more, got her number/etc. I remember calling her and leaving her a voicemail ages back and her never calling me back. It took me a little while to get over her because I was always thinking "wtf, why didn't she call me back".

So, this was probably 6 or 7 years ago. Recently, at my gym I saw this girl that looked familiar. The second time I saw her I realized who it was, it was her. I was not attracted to her at ALL though. Like, I don' t think she had changed that much but I started feeling like this girl was like the ugly sister of the previous girl. Maybe it is because I am more interested in girls now that were her age 6 or 7 years ago.

Funny how time can change ones views on someone.

 

[GS750]

Had a thing for a girl in college who had a BF, looking back I'm confident if I had made a move she'd have cheated on him in a second. But anyways I saw her a few weeks ago. Haven't really had any contact with her in about 7 years. She's a whale. Doesn't even look like the same person. Cant believe I ever had a thing for her.

 

[TheException]

Girl who I had a "crush" (gay, hurts just typing that word) in high school...is actually still in my friend circle. We actually were into each other for a bit but she went crawling back to an ex boyfriend. Now....every time I introduce her to a new girl, she gives us both the "evil eye".

Couple hours later and I always hear this from the new girl I bring around:

HB: I dont like your friend "xyz", she seems like a b1tch

*meanwhile they never even had a conversation*


Just goes to show that women are better COVERT COMMUNICATORS and thats why body language is so important. But its funny to see how she still is obviously attracted to me and hold nothing back in the jealousy department....its getting quite old though to be honest.

 

[cordoncordon]

Girl I dated for 1.5 years about 10 years ago. Was ready to marry her and not look back. Head over heels for this girl. Around 5'5" and 110 pounds. GREAT body. Out of the blue she met a guy where she works and left me for him. I was devastated. Took me well over a year to fully recover. I still get shivers from how bad off I was haha.

Saw some pics a while ago on her facebook. I had not seen her or any of her pics in 8 years. She is now fat and I would not look twice at her. Amazing how much she had changed. What a break that was getting dumped by her haha.

 

[Big Nuts]

Banged one of the girls I lived with in university.....solid 8....fast forward 20 years...run into her...3 kids...she looked like she swallowed an elephant....now shes a 0/10....it was amazing.....the destruction.

The horror, the horror, the wh0re...

 

[JdelaSilviera]

If you are in your 20´s or early 30s. And if you take care of yourself, although you may show a few signs of aging, in 10 years time you can look pretty much the same or better.

Any women in her 20s (either early or late) in 3/4 years from now, despite what she does (ignoring the few with good genes), she´ll look much worse.. And you won´t be half attracted since we are looks obsessed.

That´s why it happens a lot to guys, the situation the OP is describing. The girl that makes you lose your sleep now, it will be a fat pig very shortly... or anorexic skinny.... there´s no middle..

 

[The Simple Man]

I dated the girl below at the time that picture was taken. Ran into her 3 years later and she is a 5, no joke. https://fbcdn-photos-c-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/524084_305633136246389_1095917402_n.jpg (girl in the middle...duh )

I guess she turned into the left one huh. :crackup: