Running away...

[ralf6655]

Me and my girlfriend were talking today, and we've been going out about a year. We're 18. It came up that she had run away when she was younger, and I sypathetically said 'oh, that must have been bad, where did you go (as in where)?". She said, 'How dare you ask me that question?", I said "What, it was just a casual question?", she then replied "It's hardly a casual question", then she just stormed off without saying anything"

What do I do? I feel like I should apologise, but ideally just want to leave it, but won't that make things worse, as I don't really feel what I should be sorry for. Should I just apologise, or just leave it a couple of days and see if she calls me (she should eventually), what should I say?

 

[Scrumtulescence]

She sounds like a psycho, even for an 18 year old girl. Beware.

And you should have your balls cut off if you apologise for that. That's ridiculous, you did absolutely nothing wrong.

 

[sexy_kuta]

u did nothing wrong.. leave her alone she doesnt know whats going on (psycho problems) so let her come to you first, it might be a week-two weeks,

she will come back and appolize for running off like that, dont contact her remember

 

[zerocelcius]

she must have a bit of the crazy in her! There is no reason for her to completly blow up like that unless she is very ashamed of what she did. Either way you should get out of her life. Sombody like that is not healthy to be around.

Your Choice, but you did ask.

Peace 'n Beatz

 

[ralf6655]

Now I get a text from her saying that 'obviously you're not stupid enough to apologise, unless you meant to be that cruel'.

What do I answer to that, or just ignore her? I'm getting angry now!!!

 

[sexy_kuta]

Now I get a text from her saying that 'obviously you're not stupid enough to apologise, unless you meant to be that cruel'.

What do I answer to that, or just ignore her? I'm getting angry now!!!

dont text her nothing, ignore her, she disrespected u like that, by running away, leavin u hanging

trust me, silence is the biggest thing u can do to a girl it will drive her nuts, cnat u see? u didnt talk to her, now shes texting u cuz its gettin to her head.

 

[ralf6655]

Shouldn't I just try and sort out the situation?

 

[rocky_mtn]

Tell her that you care about her feelings, and since she brought it up, that you thought that she wanted to talk about it.


If she keeps acting irrational, tell her that you can understand why she ran away because she doesn't seems capable of rationally handling and dealing with her problems.



btw, she's psycho

 

[Phyzzle]

She ran away to join the circus.

The circus of prostitution!!

Yeah, this is a low quality girl. Keep that in mind, and it should be easy to ignore her.

 

[zerocelcius]

Shouldn't I just try and sort out the situation?

What are you Dr. Phil? Hell no you shouldn't try to fix her! You are a friend not her Dr.

Ditch her ass and find sombody who will be fun to hang out with not a head case that will only pull you down. Maybe losing you as a freind will wake her dumb ass up!

 

[sexy_kuta]

listen lets not get harsh,, Ur girl has problems straight up. problems that she needs to deal with by herself, KEY WORD, not with u

so let her deal with it. and let her come to u and and appolize. if she keeps on texting you and bringing u down with negatively stuff such as, "obviously you're not stupid enough to apologise, unless you meant to be that crue"

then keep on ignoring her, silence is the best way to treat ur girl, its the best way to punish them, withdraw all the attention.

and stay clam, she needs to relize what she did was wrong, so just stay low for a while, let she come to u

 

[zerocelcius]

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[flexion_]

Just ignore the situation - no need to bring it up. I sense much more storming out for no reason in your future....