"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Running a 10k tomorrow

itishe

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I'm going to run a 10k tomorrow, I've ran this race multiple times in the past, with little to no training. I find that training for running is boring so I usually just go balls out on running day.

Any advice to make this easier?

I plan on carb loading tonight (not recommended for losing weight, but a huge energy boost)
Consume caffiene shortly before race

Anything else?

P.S. it will be 9 °F tomorrow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You're going to drink caffine before a 10k race in 10 degree weather?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
You're going to drink caffine before a 10k race in 10 degree weather?
if ur going to use sarcasm can u plz also explain why it is bad a s i wouldnt see anything wrong with it.
 

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Francisco is right. Caffine isn't the best idea. That being said, I do it before shorter races (like a 10K) and I do notice an imrovement in times.

Also there is really no point in carbo loading a night prior for a 10k. You're better off being sure to hydrate and eating a small, high carb breakfast.

For the cold? Run some distance before, and, up until the race starts.
 

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I don't think that was sarcasm, as much as incredulousness. Subtle but important difference.

The statement that struck me as odd was "I find that training for running is boring so I usually just go balls out on running day." :eek:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I run for college, and all I can say is just pace yourself in the first 5k. Go for a goal time and try to get it. Try to focus on your breathing in the cold weather. Try to latch onto someone as well that is around your ability or higher. Have a good time. Let us know the results.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
Francisco is right. Caffine isn't the best idea. That being said, I do it before shorter races (like a 10K) and I do notice an imrovement in times.

Also there is really no point in carbo loading a night prior for a 10k. You're better off being sure to hydrate and eating a small, high carb breakfast.

For the cold? Run some distance before, and, up until the race starts.
Hydration would be more more important cold weather to keep you from bonking, especially since no real training was done. Then drinking a diuretic to cap it off?!! Bulking up with all those carbs the night before without proper hydration is one way the bulk of those carbs will be converted to fat and stored instead of being converted to energy.
 

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Throttle said:
I don't think that was sarcasm, as much as incredulousness. Subtle but important difference.
Thanks for noticing. :up:
Throttle said:
The statement that struck me as odd was "I find that training for running is boring so I usually just go balls out on running day." :eek:
Did he say "go bonk out?"
 

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I popped PowerGels as a joke one time in the first part of a 10K.

A little caffeine never hurts. Just drink enough water that you are peeing up to the time of the race. Although beware of hyponatremia.

In cold weather races I always layer it up with a pair of shorts under track pants and a t-shirt with a sweatshirt over it and then finally my track jacket.

Gloves and hat wouldn't hurt either.
 

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Ricky said:
I popped PowerGels as a joke one time in the first part of a 10K...
Hopefully is wasn't the raspberry flavor. The red color would throw up a bunch of questions. :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Hopefully is wasn't the raspberry flavor. The red color would throw up a bunch of questions. :crackup:

I HATE those and if I'm doing anything shorter than a half-marathon I'll avoid them like tha plague. But I got to admit, placebo or not I always feel better afterward.

I think chocolate GU is my fave.
 
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