"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rule 1:

The girl must kiss you by the end of the 1st date. None of that kiss on cheek crap, tongue on tongue. If she won't kiss you, it is because...

a. she's not attracted to you and never wants to see you again

b. she's not attracted to you, but because of her situation (single mom living with parents) she needs a weak provider to take care of her and her kids

c. she's not attracted to you, but she is a freak and wants to keep you around for validation

No kiss? Get rid of her


Rule 2:
Sex by 3rd date. This is open to discretion. Some girls I had sex with on the 1st date, some on the 2nd date, some on the 3rd date. If she won't have sex with you by the third date, it is because...

a. she is attracted to you, but wants to make you wait because she read some stupid book like the rules or steve harvey's book

b. she is attracted to you, but wants to make you wait because she sees you as a good provider. don't worry, her lovers will take care of her sexual needs while she makes you wait

No sex? Get rid of her.

Rules protect you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Commandante

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LOL I have seen yesterday a guy on TV who told the same sh!t like this and other rules you find in popular PUA books. For example the ask the girl about her opinion on whatever opener. What do you think how many DJ´s use these rules out there? If the girls know about these rules - on this page are some girls as well, and lot of them (the real hot ones) have enough experience with DJ´s, so why shouldn´t they - than following these rules is like having written "I learned everything from a fvckin´ book baby" on your forehead. Do we really want this?

I would add to your list Rule 0:

The only rule is that there are no rules!
 

Accension

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Nope the game is not so black and white end of story.
There's too many things to take into consideration.
For example: Writing STATIC rules for a DYNAMIC concept.
The idea of rules as in personal standards, you can't accept a girl not meeting is ok but even that is just a limitation.

Playing by the book... Just ensures your reaction not hers...
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Rules are made to be broken.
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Keep in mind, women learn the game at a much earlier age.

While we are playing football and video games, they are learning the tools of manipulations.

The rules protect you from women that have an agenda.

If you want to wait 3 months for a kiss, go for it!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rules, rules, rules, why not just advice? All is fair in love and war and in war there are no rules.
 
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