"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rules for getting the girl that says no

GetFit66

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Hi everyone,

What are some rules you guys have for getting a girl that says no. Albeit a quality woman, not just a bpd hb9.

No particular situation here, so I doubt there's just one right starting point.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If your thinking about girls who say "No" to you....your doing it wrong. Go after women who make it easy for you, ones that are actually attracted.
 

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Most of the time it's possible to 180 her "no," but y waste the effort when ten other girls will readily say yes
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GetFit66

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TheException said:
If your thinking about girls who say "No" to you....your doing it wrong. Go after women who make it easy for you, ones that are actually attracted.
Right, I get the easy idea it builds up your ego and you learn things. However sometimes the brick wall is worth tearing down.

A no can be turned into something worthwhile.


I like the rape idea :up:
 

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Women who are interested in you won't confuse you. Go after them. A girl that says no should be dropped and forgotten. Trying to turn their minds around is more trouble than it's worth. My ruling.

Case closed.
 

GetFit66

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With the amount of stupid hoes in modern society a smart woman (ha, i know a smart woman) has alot of value. That's not to say we become stepping stones for her, not at all.

But it is worth pursuing. You guys need to take your ego out of this picture and think about it.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Rule #1: Move on. There's a chance she is an AW and will come to you if she sees you with new girls.
:yes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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