"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rule NUMERO UNO: Get her @#$% phone number!

Francisco d'Anconia

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I was trading emails with this woman on when we should meet up (we hadn't traded phone numbers, it never came up). I gave three general times that I would be available, she countered. I told her that at that I had only one day available because my schedule filled up. She agreed and gave me a specific time. I countered with a different time and she agreed. Remember, we still did not have each other's number.

The day came and guess who shows up on time without having even spoken to her on the phone? We chat and have a couple of drinks and she somehow squeezes into the conversation that she didn't have my number. I laugh and blow it off.

The date ends (quite well) and I tell her that we should get together again this week and that she should get in touch with me with the times she was available. She agrees and guess what was in my mailbox the next morning? Her schedule and telephone number.

Look guys, it can be easily done without having her number if you know how to keep her interested. It's an easy way to gage her interest and you come off as in control and not like all the other guys that try anything to get her number.

Be bold, be different, be a DJ! :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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