Rule 1

[BBX]

Have many many many many many many options. Try setting things up with as many girls as humanly possible as you can and then some. I've been doing this and its been working great. Theres no need to make posts on little intricate detials on some bullshet event that happened with a girl u want. You stop caring when u set up more options, u dont get oneitis, u dont get nervous, things open up like they appear to be doing. Options, options, options. If one fails, u could care less. I've known all this long before, but its now just starting to actually click into effect. Rule 1: options lol.

 

[Jerky Boi]

I think you've basically summed up the details on dating. Haha, you have some pretty good points. Setting up dates with multiple women makes you seem less available to most women and by associating yourself with a lot of women in general will help you in that field as well.

 

[BBX]

lol yea, but in hs, you don't really date girls, you hang out with them and try to get with them. And remember imo, the dj rules mean almost nothing on hs girls. The friend zone, oneitis, etc mean nothing in hs. Like if you get oneitis in hs with a girl u never got with, you don't need to move on and never see her again. In hs, being comfortable around a girl and pure random luck overpower the friend zone and oneitis. Hs girls make absoluetly no sense at all. Stop trying to make sense out of it and apply rules, just go after more so it won't matter.

 

[Raikojo17]

lol yea, but in hs, you don't really date girls, you hang out with them and try to get with them. And remember imo, the dj rules mean almost nothing on hs girls. The friend zone, oneitis, etc mean nothing in hs. Like if you get oneitis in hs with a girl u never got with, you don't need to move on and never see her again. In hs, being comfortable around a girl and pure random luck overpower the friend zone and oneitis. Hs girls make absoluetly no sense at all. Stop trying to make sense out of it and apply rules, just go after more so it won't matter.

oh so tru.

 

[we all eat food]

yeah bbx, u speak the truth, lets go create more options this weekend

 

[BBX]

yeah bbx, u speak the truth, lets go create more options this weekend

word negro face, give it up to this nigglet for kinda sorta getting with his old oneitis. fuk the dj rules in hs.

 

[Steg]

+rep man, when I planed on the two and went up to talk to sunshine it was the first time I actually felt it go textbook smooth. No panic, no going over what I read last night, nothing. OTOH that was like my 4/5th attempt so practise has a lot to do with it maybe.

 

[BBX]

A lot of it is practice and another big factor, GETTING OVER YOUR FEARS. This may actualy come before anything else. If u have fears over girls, drop everything and get over it. I learned that the hard way. If ur afraid to ask a girl out bc youve never done it before, face the fear NOW, do it. You cannot live your life in fear over doing this s.it. Your chances with girls will only start when you are fearless, when u stop obsessing over little bullcrap things like omg she looked at me.

2 weeks ago I hit my breaking point. The girl I thought I asked out to homecomming eneded up making out with some other guy in front of my face allrite. The problem was I followed all these dj rules and bull crap. But I was following the rules like a godamn checklist while doing it in fear. Also, the girl was a cycatic slvt, but thats a totally different story.

Get rid of the fear, and then having more and more options will only bring u up. 2 weeks ago my only option hooked up with a guy infront of my face. Now, I have about 5 options. 1 of witch I hooked up with already and is fukin obsessed with me, but shes kinda below the standards, fukable, but below.

LOL, so I came to realise options by itself are not good enough. You gotta destroy any fear first.

Options+comfort=more success than u wanted

 

[we all eat food]

^ this brotha speaks the truth.

Basically, its just high school, a very small part of your life and dotnt ake it so seriosuly, its not like ur getting out of life alive anyway. so take chances, live and EXPERIENCE