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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Ruined my chances w/girl in email, can it be fixed?

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solo1

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Well anyway yesterday i responded to this girls email.

her questions asked if ive done traveling and where.

Since i havent quite done any traveling on my own, i named 4 places that i traveled to when i was a kid on family trips.
i named the places, but did not indicate i went as a kid.

At first i felt kinda lame if i told her i dont travel and havent gone anywhere lately. So i wrote her the places. and asked if she's done any similar traveling.

Now after writing it i feel like im bragging, and if she hasnt traveled at all, it would make her feel worse.

I havent gotten a response from her yet, so meh...if she feels i have a big ego and doesnt wana talk anymore, oh well.

Any possible ways to fix this by emailing her again?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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insomniac

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Don't bother worrying about what you may have said wrong. Chances are, she'll flake and stop writing back to you for reasons you can't possibly begin to imagine. It's a numbers game.

If you're not already, get talking to more than one woman on the internet. Once you're doing that, you won't care if one of them doesn't write back. If you feel bad doing that, just remember they're doing the same thing to you.

Don't worry about the travel comment...just brush it off and move on to something else, lightly make fun of her, and most importantly, find out what she's passionate about and get her to talk in depth about it. Works wonders.
 
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Maybe she had to go to the doctor for chronic diarhea. Maybe she's recovering from a sex change operation. Maybe she's at a KKK gathering. Who knows why she didn't email you right back? Who cares? I hate to be blunt, but it sounds like you really need to get back into the game and start talking up a lot more women - if you're this hung up over 1 single girl you've emailed once or twice, odds are good you're not approaching any girls in person. If I'm wrong, I apologize... but I don't think I am. Have you checked out the DJ Boot Camp? I think it could be very beneficial to you... if you do decide approaching girls in real life is too overwhelming, try doing a search in titles only for "online".
 
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