"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DjDan said:
that shows desperation. the minute you pull that on a girl you will lose. i speak from experience. i must have lost at least 20 girls last year due to that little stunt.

its best to ignore her.

'ignore, ignore and you'll get your wh0re.' =)
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Its only desperate if its coming from a place of desperation. If OP had other plates that were giving him sex it would be coming from the place of.....i have x amount of time, i want to have sex, if your not going to do it then leave and i'll call someone that will, theres no emotional reaction on his part. He isn't mad, frustrated, desperate, he just has specific needs as a man and values his time.

Not sure if you blew that 20 girls out of proportion or what, but you must of been saying it in a desperate needy way or something to be losing girls off that. Girls know they have to give up there p*ssy if they want a guy to stick around. I'd recommend you read the book titled MODEONE
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DjDan said:
you are arguing over the terms of relationship instead of SETTING them. this will kill your game and she will not want to accept it.

I don't see how this isn't setting the terms, your up front about what it is you want and your not being needy, you can take it or leave it, you have options

telling a woman "I WANT SEX, otherwise you leave" will get you the boot.

if she has any interest in you sexually and your value is higher than her it shouldn't be getting you the boot.

Just try it. It SOUNDS like good advice on a practical level, but it does not work.

it works, you just have to go about it in the right way. I've had chicks pull that kiss duck and i just smile, go for the kiss again, they duck, i laugh, walk to my keys and say lets get going, they get all shocked and confused and thats when i tell them that there cool and all but i don't have the time for a platonic friend, then they get with the program. (remember this is all done 100% nonreactive, no emotion, don't care, etc)


It's better to just have sex with her without saying anything.

i agree

This girl obviously was not feeling him, he should have just let her go from the minute she hesitated.

i agree too but adding the crash and burn part to it so he can go on and write it off and move on to the next
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