It has nothing to do with the attitude. IT'S ALL ABOUT LOOKS! If a girl has a certain guys exact ideal personality it won't matter if he doesn't like the way she looks. Women, especially good looking ones are high maintenance and *****y for the most part.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Rude Woman At Bars - How do Deal ?
- Thread starter englishcrap
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Englishcrap, you missed the perfect opportunity to throw some smooth macking lines on these broads. Any time a girl gives you that much attitude without reason, it means that they want you to react to them and dish it right back. They wanted to create some sexual tension. If they weren't into you, they would have just ignore your a$$. Man, I wish I had the opportunities that you did.
You're completely missing my point. There are plenty of very attractive women who are NOT demanding, biotchy, high maintenance pains in the caboose. Some men like the added challenge of the biotchiness and some are just so dumb or lazy that they will tolerate it just because the girl is attractive to them. They are willing to settle for bad behavior. That just encourages these kinds of girls to behave this way. If guys stopped tolerating it the girls would stop behaving that way. And again...there are PLENTY of attractive girls and women who DON'T behave badly. Guys just aren't as selective as they should be, so they get what they invite and are willing to accept.
Yeah the guy might think of it as a challenge but if the guy didn't like the way they looked they would not supposedly be attracted to there bad attitude. Guys just won't be attracted to personality traits like some woman can. As far as attractive girls not always being *****y or high maintenace, I can't seem to meet any
You can't meet them because the biotchy drama queens stand out more. They're louder, behave in a way to draw attention to themselves, etc. They are the ones guys notice first and end up focusing on because they don't set their standards high enough and stop looking after spotting the attractive drama queens.Originally posted by Fatality
Yeah the guy might think of it as a challenge but if the guy didn't like the way they looked they would not supposedly be attracted to there bad attitude. Guys just won't be attracted to personality traits like some woman can. As far as attractive girls not always being *****y or high maintenace, I can't seem to meet any
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.