"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wilko

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I'm actually talking about young women in Australia.

Now, I live in a nice aspirational suburb; very diverse ethnic group, just good people on the whole. We look out for each others well-being and property, and we greet each other in passing even if we're not acquainted.

Everybody, that is, except for young women.

Most (not all, but most) will not even acknowledge you, will not return a direct greeting, a nod, or a smile. Even our laughable teenage "thugs" are more congenial. Have you ever seen a dog fail to acknowledge another dog? Me neither.

Christ, they even drive the same way, complete failure to take account of other road/sidewalk users.

I suspect they're irredeemable.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wilko said:
I'm actually talking about young women in Australia.

Now, I live in a nice aspirational suburb; very diverse ethnic group, just good people on the whole. We look out for each others well-being and property, and we greet each other in passing even if we're not acquainted.

Everybody, that is, except for young women.

Most (not all, but most) will not even acknowledge you, will not return a direct greeting, a nod, or a smile. Even our laughable teenage "thugs" are more congenial. Have you ever seen a dog fail to acknowledge another dog? Me neither.

Christ, they even drive the same way, complete failure to take account of other road/sidewalk users.

I suspect they're irredeemable.
Nah they think they are THE HOTTEST thing that has ever walked the earth, don't worry they will get whats coming to them soon enough.
 

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Lol, I think I just became "old". Damn kids. Time to get myself fitted for a rocking chair and a shotgun.
 
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