"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm actually talking about young women in Australia.

Now, I live in a nice aspirational suburb; very diverse ethnic group, just good people on the whole. We look out for each others well-being and property, and we greet each other in passing even if we're not acquainted.

Everybody, that is, except for young women.

Most (not all, but most) will not even acknowledge you, will not return a direct greeting, a nod, or a smile. Even our laughable teenage "thugs" are more congenial. Have you ever seen a dog fail to acknowledge another dog? Me neither.

Christ, they even drive the same way, complete failure to take account of other road/sidewalk users.

I suspect they're irredeemable.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wilko said:
I'm actually talking about young women in Australia.

Now, I live in a nice aspirational suburb; very diverse ethnic group, just good people on the whole. We look out for each others well-being and property, and we greet each other in passing even if we're not acquainted.

Everybody, that is, except for young women.

Most (not all, but most) will not even acknowledge you, will not return a direct greeting, a nod, or a smile. Even our laughable teenage "thugs" are more congenial. Have you ever seen a dog fail to acknowledge another dog? Me neither.

Christ, they even drive the same way, complete failure to take account of other road/sidewalk users.

I suspect they're irredeemable.
Nah they think they are THE HOTTEST thing that has ever walked the earth, don't worry they will get whats coming to them soon enough.
 

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Lol, I think I just became "old". Damn kids. Time to get myself fitted for a rocking chair and a shotgun.
 
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