"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rude Girls in Club

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Yo'Mama

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They were ridiculously, and unnecessarily rude. Whether my 'approach' sucked or not, believe me they went out of their way to act like nasty biatches.

Went out tonight. No 'success' but ended up being invited by three lovely girls from Nova Scotia to bar hop with them. They were just so friendly and fun and down to earth. Makes all the difference. I just want to learn to gauge girls better. No matter how pretty, I have no interest in talking to cvnts.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jaylan

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Im wrong about what? Can you guys read? Where did I say it was ok for those girls to be rude? I merely agreed that they were rude and then explained why women in a club would be turned off by OPs actions. Calm the hell down, slow up, and reread what I wrote word for word. I can't believe you let these chicks get you all emotional over all this.

And anyone who's gotta ask why women are cautious with male strangers, really needs to get a clue. Its rare that you get cases like that crazy craigslist killer woman. Its not so rare for dudes to prey on women. And given a womans natural biological disadvantage, its smart for them to be cautious. Does it mean I think its ok to be jerky to well meaning dudes? No. Im just saying I understand why they do it and that its wise to be careful.
 
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The thing most guys probably won't see, is very simple and a bit cruel. Many times women are rude, because they find you (very) unattractive. Also those flashing white and green lights (if applied), might make you even uglier when you are at 30 cm from her..

If you have more game than looks your priority should be day game, if you are a 6.5+ say, you have more chances at club. Of course you can do both, but if you are ugly or even average, prepare to be shot down in the club environment 99% of the time, where the female ego's are through the roof.
 
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You gotta change your mindset when you walk into a club. Look where you are! You're a predator looking for a hot piece of ass to pound. Expect them all to be cünts, 100% of the time. They hold the power in that establishment, I don't care how super mega primo alpha, or how hairy your ball sac is.

So with this in mind, when you get a nice one, it's a bonus. Whatever follows that is positive is pure gravy. Win.
 
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