"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rubato's 25th Birthday Advice Thread

Racecar

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Fellow Don Juans,

My good friend and wing Rubato celebrated his 25th birthday yesterday. (Congrats buddy!) I have received some great advice and guidance from the men on these boards over the months. You guys have all been amazing and I hope you can all come through for me once again.

In the context of birthdays, 25 is probably the second or third milestone age a man reaches (18 and 21), but it also has some significance. At 25, you're a quarter century old and in terms of masculine development, you should be rounding into the person you will become for the rest of your life.

To all the DJs here:

* What is the best piece of advice can you give Rubato?

* Where were you (or hope to be) in terms of your DJ development at 25?

* One book or movie that every 25-year-old DJ should read or see.




ALSO!

To anyone with connections with old-time SSers Monsieur Pook or Anti-Dump: This is asking a lot, but it would mean a lot to my friend here if either of these two legends were to contribute to the thread.

Thank you all in advance!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Leopold

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Happy B Rubato buddy!!!

I dont know what kind of advice you expect from a fvcking virgin like me but just keep hitting the gym hard man. :)

I hope?!? NO I'LL BE at the at the top of my game on my 25th birthday.

Go watch Blue Valentine... man that movie will kill any left inner AFC on you and turn your heart into a cold stone black diamond girls want to steal from you.
 
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