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[Hikapo]

Pigtails works at my doctor's office as a receptionist for 6 months and she moved from Georgia 6 months ago and got this job. I already liked her when I saw her. I visit my doctor every month. It took me 3 visits to start a conversation with her. I got to know her a little more every visit after that.And it took me 6 visits to ask her out.

Today, I called the office in the morning to see if she was working. She picks up the phone. I was nervous, but I pulled it off somehow.

Pigtails: Doctor XXX's office.
Me: Hi, this is Hikapo.
Pigtails: Hi Hikapo!
Me: What time do you get off today?
Pigtails:...around 4pm. Why?
Me: I am coming in to visit you.
Pigtails: Okayyyy. (Giggles)

I walked into the office around 4pm, and I saw her alone with 0 patients. BINGO! Golden chance is here.

Pigtails: Hi Hikapo, whats up?
Me: Hey Pigtails. I came in here to see you. (with a sly smile)
Pigtails: Okayyy. (blushes)
Me: What are you doing thursday?
Pigtails: hmmm......Nothing. Why? (She looks away)
Me: You wanna go grab lunch?
Pigtails: That would be nice.

Just when I was about to get her number, another receptionist came in and we chatted for a while. Haha, all the 3 receptionists and the doctor that work there all knew what was going on. They teased Pigtails. Poor girl.

So after she was done with work, the other receptionists deliberately boot her early so she could talk to me. I have very good rapport with the doctor and the other receptionists. Thank god.

She walked me to the parking lot and I got her number. We set a time to grab lunch on Thursday. Chatted for a while before I gave her a goodbye hug.


So, I was suppose to go out with pigtails this past Thursday at noon. However, she called an hour earlier and told me that her grandpa has a doctor's appointment and she is the only one that can drive. I said okay, somewhat skeptical of the excuse. She said she really wants to hang out. I said okay, lets re-schedule to Sunday at 5pm.

Called her earlier today and she didn't pick up the phone. I went to the meet up spot at 5pm and didn't see her.

Now, I think it's time for me to move on. Stood me up twice.

Question for you guys.....

Is it me who is clueless at judging a women's interest, or is that women are so good with words and messing with our head that I fail to see the flakes she was going to pull on me.

Plus, I am still gonna see her in the doctor's office next week because I have an appointment. Surely, I am not going to ask her out again, but the situation is going to be somewhat awkward.

 

[Tiguere]

2 strikes and she is OUTTT!!!!.

talk to her about your doctor and only deal with her about your appointments. also the less you deal with her the better.

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

2 strikes and she is OUTTT!!!!.

talk to her about your doctor and only deal with her about your appointments. also the less you deal with her the better.

^------THIS-------^

The girl obviously has issues.

It'll only go downhill from here even if you do manage wrangling her into actually going out on a date.

Drop the subject completely, it never happened. Move on. Professional talk only.

all the 3 receptionists and the doctor that work there all knew what was going on. They teased Pigtails. Poor girl.

Don't feel sorry for her. It's obvious everyone in the office is aware she has problems. This isn't by far the first time this has happened and it won't be the last. Don't pick up a project girl.