"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Roy Baumeister Interview

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:eek: How the hell did this one slip past the cathedrals agitprop? If your a regular reader of red pill sites you may have already seen this but for anyone who has hasn't it's very good. He's not splitting atoms or anything if your already an aware "spherian" but it's still encouraging. Interviewer is quite good too , no signs of blue pill funk from him either and he stfu.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYZM9N1Za_k#t=1441
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Awesome!!!

I read one of his essays on this subject years ago and I have used it in discussions ever since.

But the evidence is clear: Men are more extreme (highs and lows of achievement) than women, most academic and social decisions are made for the benefit of women, and men made pretty much everything of cultural, technological, and scientific value.
 
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