"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Routines...

ChrizZ

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Has anyone got some good routines? As in stories or openers?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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God_of_getting_layed

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heres a good one:

DONT USE STORIES AS A WAY TO GET CHICKS.

-it doesnt help you with women
-Its a waste of breath
-its mystery bull****.
 

banGbro

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It appears, at least with chicks that come around to you, like at work, the best way is to ignore them. They, at least with me because Im so hot at 250 lbs, always try to get your attention. They come to you.
 

Doggystyle

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do interesting things = get interesting stories to tell
 

Doggystyle

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do interesting things = get interesting stories to tell
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well ignoring chicks isn't going to get you anywhere..

A story may work well in conversation, but there's no "set" routine or story to follow. Learn to talk to people and it'll come. You can't be a good conversationalist the short way, you've got to go through it like repetition.
 

nicenomore

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My favorite opener : Who lies more.
Its short , sweet , simple , totally unexpected

Stories , well they come from my life experience , like places I've been to , or interesting things that have taken place etc...
Story tellig is an art , you master it , you can keep a chick interested in you.

WC2 has rightly said, there's no set theory or routine . You have to talk , and automatically calibrate and relate the story.
 
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