"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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routines. pebbles. conversation fillers

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everyone post your favorite routine/game that you like to do with chicks -- anything that can build rapport or create buying temperature spikes

mine is the 5 questions game:

rules:
1) HB must answer each of the 5 questions with a LIE to win

here is a sample game being played out:

DC: what color is your scarf?
HB: purple stripes!
DC: where are we right now?
HB: Antarctica!
DC: uhhh... how old are you?
HB: 95
DC: ...........wait how many questions did I ask you already??
HB: 7! haha (some chicks will fail this test...but if not...)
DC: damn you're good! have you played this game before??
HB: nope!
DC: BAM :D

never failed me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like a lot to remember...a lot of girls I know would be lost/confused by question 4.

But I suppose if you can pull it off you'd get a really good reaction.
 
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dj_china said:
everyone post your favorite routine/game that you like to do with chicks -- anything that can build rapport or create buying temperature spikes

mine is the 5 questions game:

rules:
1) HB must answer each of the 5 questions with a LIE to win

here is a sample game being played out:

DC: what color is your scarf?
HB: purple stripes!
DC: where are we right now?
HB: Antarctica!
DC: uhhh... how old are you?
HB: 95
DC: ...........wait how many questions did I ask you already??
HB: 7! haha (some chicks will fail this test...but if not...)
DC: damn you're good! have you played this game before??
HB: nope!
DC: BAM :D

never failed me
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158800
:cool: 5 qeustion game is for rookies, remember when I use to do that too.....eeh
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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