Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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routine i highly recomend

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Monday
Squats-5x5(Do four progressively heavier sets of 5 with the 5th set being your 5RM.)
Deadlifts-5x5(Do the same)
Bench Press-5x5(Do the same)
Incline DB Press-2x12-20

Wednesday
Light Squats or Lunges-4x8 each leg
Good Mornings-3x8-12
Shoulder Press-5x5 or Dips-4xmax until you get 12 each time. then add weight.
Pullups-4xmax

Friday
Squats-warmup to a 3 reps with 5 more lbs than you used on Monday. On the following monday use this weight for your 5th set.
Bent Over Row-5x5
Incline Bench-5x5
Tricep Extensions-2x12-20

ive been doing it for about 6 months, no traing before hand, added 35 pounds and about doubled my squat/dead/bench
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When you are a newbie, everything works, unless your genes really suck. But if you are an experienced lifter, I can't imagine you gaining size/strength with such a routine... Squats, Deads and Bench the same day? And doing squats again after 4 days?
Again, for a newbie it can work as every other routine...
 

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that routine isnt to great my friend. You are working out three times a week and doing way to much in each session.

This routine is a great way to overtrain your body.
 

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You're training your back every workout. Not good.

There is no order or pattern to your program, it seems very eclectic.

I'd say its a good program to avoid.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i started to read that but the articles are full of way too much fluff and crazy ass formulas and ****. What the hell man? (force = mass x acceleration so the rubberband theory.. blah blah blah WTF?)

Then the pronouns often lack antecedents so i'm stuck wondering "it? what's 'it?!'" and end up lost.
 

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Here is a better routine IMO:

DAY 1 PULL

Deadlifts or Power Cleans 5x5
Barbell Rows, Dumbbell Rows, or Wide Grip Chins 5x5
Barbell Curls, Close Grip Underhand Chins, or Hammer Curls 5x5

DAY 2 PUSH

Incline or Flat Barbell or Dumbbell Bench Press 5x5
Barbell or Dumbbell Shoulder Presses 5x5
Tricep Dips or Close Grip Bench Press 5x5

DAY 3 LEGS

Front or Back Squats 5x5
Barbell or Dumbbell Stiff Leg Deadlifts 5x5
Calf Raises (3x12)
Weighted Crunches or Weighted Hanging Leg Raises (3x12)

You set out your routine like this:

Pull
Deadlifts
Barbell Rows
Barbell Curls

Push
BB Bench
DB Shoulder Press
Close Grip Bench

Legs
Front Squats
BB SLDL
Calf Raises
Weighted Crunches

Then once you've been following it for 12 weeks, switch up the exercises. I'm on it now and have seen good mass/strength gains.
 

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i dunno about hitting biceps and triceps with 5x5, probably wouldn't be most effective
 

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i really think you guys should cycle your sets and reps.

Also when doing dead lifts, squats and bench press.....they shouldnt be done during the same workout.

I like the idea of doing 5 sets of a body part. You shouldnt jump right into 5 sets though because your muscles would not be ready for it. I would start with 3 sets for two weeks followed by 4 sets for a week or two and than start doing the 5 set routines.
 

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Originally posted by Reverend
Monday
Squats-5x5(Do four progressively heavier sets of 5 with the 5th set being your 5RM.)
Deadlifts-5x5(Do the same)
Bench Press-5x5(Do the same)
Incline DB Press-2x12-20

Wednesday
Light Squats or Lunges-4x8 each leg
Good Mornings-3x8-12
Shoulder Press-5x5 or Dips-4xmax until you get 12 each time. then add weight.
Pullups-4xmax

Friday
Squats-warmup to a 3 reps with 5 more lbs than you used on Monday. On the following monday use this weight for your 5th set.
Bent Over Row-5x5
Incline Bench-5x5
Tricep Extensions-2x12-20

ive been doing it for about 6 months, no traing before hand, added 35 pounds and about doubled my squat/dead/bench
cough wow this is the best thing i have ever seen :down:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Reverend
i dunno about hitting biceps and triceps with 5x5, probably wouldn't be most effective
For Bi's it's fine, because they are a small muscle. But this routine is more towards strength training.
 

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hmm, i always thought that bi's responded better to higher volume, maybe imi wrong. 5x5 was always recomended to me for compound exercises. Indeed 5x5 is for strength, but isnt it most effective with the big exercicses?
 

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I would point and laugh at anyone I saw doing 5x5 on their biceps. Hehehehehe!!!
 

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So if something works for someone, you'll laugh at them just because you don't do it. I apologise, but i'm sure you're a guy who performs 50 rep bicep curls.
 

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Originally posted by alvatore
So if something works for someone, you'll laugh at them just because you don't do it. I apologise, but i'm sure you're a guy who performs 50 rep bicep curls.


he's just saying that people are too concerned with vanity muscles. 1-2 sets of biceps is all you're gonna need, mate, and the rest is up to big stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by alvatore
I apologise, but i'm sure you're a guy who performs 50 rep bicep curls.


I don't get it... How can you possibly be 'sure' of a ridiculous statement like that?

Semag hit the nail on the head.
 
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