"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Round 2: Online Dating Experiment

everywomanshero

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I sent around 22 emails out today. All were the exact same, I changed no more than 5 words to fit her profile in each one.

So far I have received 8 responses, 1# without asking, and been added to 3 yahoo messengers without asking (I included my yahoo id, don't do this as they will just freaking add u and bug u to IM them).

I started Iming one and within 1 minute she was asking me where I live and begging to let her call me within 10 minutes. LOL. Online dating is so easy. I'll post some of the responses below (Update: Just as I began to post this the one who wants me to call is trying to Day 2 me for lunch at my place LOL ):

"Well--you made me smile just reading your message so I guess that's a start...ok first concert??? I'm 28 and the concert was when I was 12--let's rewind the clocks---who was a huge hit yeah it was the first generation of NSYNC--the good ole New Kids. But I have redeemed myself seeing everyone from The Eagles and the Beach Boys to Mr. Chesney and Mr. McGraw and well Hootie back in the day...I can't remember everyone...no worries though--I just "jam" to the Kids when nobody's watching

That's awesome you're a Christian...people think "we" can't have fun...I beg to differ! I look forward to hearing from you.

okay same question back at you--who was your first concert?"

"i added u to yahoo!"

"ould love to talk with you too --you look sweet -- write back soon love "


"
hey what is up i justr got your message and i have to say say you sound like my kind of guy anyone that can make me laugh can make me happy so if you are still on send me a message or im or yahoo at ****"



"Actually, I find this whole "online dating" scene odd if you wanna know (not only the initial introduction). Although, I am very outgoing, and while yes Im sure you read I am married, I do love meeting new people be it on or offline. I love the fact that you say you are funny..I live for humor! My motto: A day in which has not been laughed is wasted. However, I fully understand there are those times that are completely innapropriate for laughter. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor, and I am quick witted Anyway..you dont wanna know the first concert I attended..ok, ok..if it counts it was "Diamond Rio" hehe. I do like country music although not my favorite. I am versatile in that area..but I too, love music. Anyway, I will add you on my messenger. Buzz me if you wanna chat sometime. Until then...."


"well to b honest with u my first concert was a george jones concert i went with my dad when i was ten then the next concert i went to was the backstreet boys concert i went twice then i just went to the family values tour in atlanta about a week ago it was off the hook but anyways hit me back"

"Hello funny guy! just recived your mess. I reviewed your profile and it says you are *** and then you write ***. That is only 2 inches but wich is it? I am 6 feet mostly legs. most guys find that intimidating. You wouldnt, would you?

I will tell you, when I tell you my first concert you will have to take into consideration that I am almost 10 years your senior. It was little River Band. I recieved the tickets as a gift for my 13th birthday. I was hooked from then on. I have been to close to 100 concerts. I wanted to go to the family values tour concert aand now the buzz fest is coming up. not sure if I will go. cant seem to find a partner. Most men my age like country music. I only like some of it. By the way, What kind of music do you listen to? maybe country lol You are younger than I maybe not.

Maybe we will talk again. BYE, ****""

My next experiment is to use an ugly guys photo, like someone rated a 6 or something, and send the exact same email to see what kind of response rates I get.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I am now up to 5 solid #s without leaving my comp. total time spent on this was less than 1.5 hours. There is no excuse for any guy anywhere in the US not to be getting with as many women as he wants. Right now I have close to 20% of the #s of women I emailed earlier.
 

Phyzzle

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Awesome. An actual, detailed report of trying different things and seeing if it works or not, instead of sitting on this board speculating.:up:
 
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Hey, your the guy that says it's easy to get laid on the internet - that ANYONE can do it.

What's the score with these girls?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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